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    Default Keeping her interest over long distance

    I met this girl a couple of weeks ago through a friend, we spent two nights going out and partying. By the end of the two nights we'd slept together already, unfortunately, she is from Michigan and I'm from Vancouver and she had to leave that morning.

    We said we'd keep in touch and we've been doing that over Facebook every few days. Now, my issue is that I have a hard time keeping the interest going until I meet her again. I'm moving to Toronto in a month and we could potentially still see each other. The goal would be to keep her interested enough to still do so. She agreed to skype byt never followed through. She's still warm, but starting to get distant.

    Any tips on this one? Whether it's Facebook or Snapchat...

    I'm working really hard not to be an AFC over text, because in person, I can kill it and keep her hooked.

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    Default Re: Keeping her interest over long distance

    Quote Originally Posted by al_banzon View Post
    I met this girl a couple of weeks ago through a friend, we spent two nights going out and partying. By the end of the two nights we'd slept together already, unfortunately, she is from Michigan and I'm from Vancouver and she had to leave that morning.

    We said we'd keep in touch and we've been doing that over Facebook every few days. Now, my issue is that I have a hard time keeping the interest going until I meet her again. I'm moving to Toronto in a month and we could potentially still see each other. The goal would be to keep her interested enough to still do so. She agreed to skype byt never followed through. She's still warm, but starting to get distant.

    Any tips on this one? Whether it's Facebook or Snapchat...

    I'm working really hard not to be an AFC over text, because in person, I can kill it and keep her hooked.
    I had a whole freakin post and my internet cut out haha ok, so im gonna fly through this, don't snapchat, keep to talking on the phone, Skype, texting, and facebook as a last resort. Im not sure how far Toronto is from Michigan where she lives, but id say if it is more than 2 hrs I would forget about it, long distance relationships farther than that are a waste of time and energy, I have done it. And a month is not too long, just keep contact, when texting don't always text her first, let her miss you sometimes, push/pull, you know. And idk how far Vancouver is from her, if its far enough for a plane ticket then idk if I would ask her to meet up before you move, like say if you needed a date to a wedding or something like that, if you have the chance to meet up before you move id say take that chance

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    Default Re: Keeping her interest over long distance

    Thanks man, I appreciate it. Now, the issue is that the only info we really did exchange were for facebook and snapchat. I can't call her because of long distance :P If I can find a way to hook her into skype, that would be great! She was warm to the one day then didn't reply to my message the next.

    She said she MIGHT come back to Vancouver in August but it wasn't a sure thing.

    So, for now, should I just wait for her to send me something? And if I don't hear from her, just let it go or should I make one more effort for it in a few days/a week or so?

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    Default Re: Keeping her interest over long distance

    if you don't have her number, wait a day or two and get it on facebook when your in a convo, after than call her and text and stuff, not too often, like I said let her miss you. What did you say to her last time that she hasn't responded back yet?

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    Default Re: Keeping her interest over long distance

    She's responded since, but the one time she didn't respond, I said "Hey, I'm busy over the next few days. I'm thinking we should skype tonight "

    She has my number, the problem with the texting and calling is that it's international, and we both can really only afford so much on our phone bills, being students and all.

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    Default Re: Keeping her interest over long distance

    Oh that didn't even cross my mind man, so yeah try to Skype her I guess. Sounds like a tough situation I feel for you! Don't stop meeting girls where you are at though, don't put all your efforts into this one girl, cause if things do turn south then you will at least have something to salvage from it

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    Default Re: Keeping her interest over long distance

    I'll definitely keep up the game here too. Only reason I'm still willing to put the effort in is that she's super fiesty, cute and hot at the same time, and to boot is a huge nerd. Don't meet a lot of those. :P So I'm trying to keep that lead hot and open.

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    Default Re: Keeping her interest over long distance

    What about using WeChat/WhatsApp or stuff like Vyber for free calls/text?

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    Default Re: Keeping her interest over long distance

    I'll keep those in mind another question is, should I push or pull right now? I've been doing most of the work to keep this going. Do I send her another message or wait for her to talk to me this time?

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    Default Re: Keeping her interest over long distance

    If you want to keep that door ope IF she comes back you better cut back soon time. If you are putting all the effort she will start wondering WHY you are spending so much time on her (you only spent little time with her). It is lowering your value dude. This can't be more than a fling, so don't try for it to be otherwise. Cut it back to a few msgs here. Keep in touch, and if she comes back BOOM meet up.

    By trying to "keep her interested" she will lose interest.

    Cheers and good luck!


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