Re: What are your opinions on Online Dating Accounts?
Yea, I realize that. That's why I said that if you want any real success, you have to get away from the computer and get out of the house.
Originally Posted by meteora
Although I did more facebook game than in-person game way back when I was starting, most of my successes were in-person. I'm saying that I like online game because for those starting out, there's always the risk that you can say something that just pisses someone off. I can say I did that quite a few times starting it out, and I'm glad to say most of them were girls who don't even go to my school. My problem is that I really didn't have a sense or filter of what was right or wrong to pick up a woman. I learned very quickly what was right and wrong, and I learned more wrong than right.
In addition, approaching online can be difficult as well. With my very first online opener, I think it took me days to finally press the enter key and start something. Online confidence is not nearly enough for public game, but the fact that I felt like I was able to come up with the right stuff on the fly, and that I knew from online gaming that if I took that first step things would become easier for me, gave me an extra drive that allowed me to approach women easier.
Call it minigolf, but even the pros first learned how to putt before they learned how to drive. As we have said though, you can't putt your way through a tourney, so mastering everything else is essential as well.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X