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    Onthereg888 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Looking for some advice

    Hey guys. Hope everyone had an awesome weekend.

    right now i am in kind of a weird predicament with this girl, and was looking for some advice. anyways here goes..

    my buddy and his gf set me up with one of her good friends on thursday night. we had a double date, everything went really well. legit, we hit it off all night. i know when a girl is just being nice, and i know when a girl is into me. this girl was into me on thursday. my buddy and his gf even got a hotel room that night, and me and this girl slept in bed together. didn't hook up but we cuddled all night.

    flash forward to friday, i texted her with some flashback humor from the night before. she ate it up. just a little back and forth, and that was that. she told me what a great time she had with a smiley face.

    the next night my buddy started a group text with me, his gf, and the girl i went on a date with. me, my buddy, and his gf all responded but my date never did. basically the gist of the text was we all need to hang out again soon, etc, etc.

    this afternoon, i shot her a text asking how her weekend was, and i havent gotten a text back. this was 4 hours ago now. people ignore texts, some people are slow getting back to texts, but this is the second night in a row without her texting me. should i be concerned? my buddy told me his gf said that she had told her friends and family about me. she's a shy girl, so im thinking that could be part of the problem, shes a little insecure? not sure where to go from here.

    thanks for reading guys. whatever you can offer me would be very much appreciated.

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    Onthereg888 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Looking for some advice

    Bump. Any help is much appreciated.

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    Default Re: Looking for some advice

    Hey dude, you really needed to step up and at least go for the kiss that night. You built a ton of comfort, you needed to express your sexual interest in her. Some girls react differently, if she's ignoring you...don't keep texting her.

    If she was really into you, give it a little time. If she doesn't respond, no harm in picking up the phone and giving her a ring. It will show her the confidence you lacked the night you were together and might restart everything for you.

    Good luck man

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    Onthereg888 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Looking for some advice

    Thanks man. Yeah I know to back off for a few days then ill play it cool and not mention anything about her lack of texting. Then ill try and make plans just the two of us this weekend. If she turns me down I know it's a lost cause.

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    Default Re: Looking for some advice

    yea, absolutely. Don't bring up he lack of texts ever. That shit doesn't phase you!

    Also, your buddy's gf will have some input for you I am sure lol...

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    Default Re: Looking for some advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    yea, absolutely. Don't bring up he lack of texts ever. That sh1t doesn't phase you!

    Also, your buddy's gf will have some input for you I am sure lol...
    Haha definitely. Thing is, I don't know the gf *that* well enough to know whether or not she'd go back to this girl with whatever I say to her. Know what I mean? So I'd rather just not take the chance.

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    Default Re: Looking for some advice

    Yea, no, I meant your buddy will probably hear from his GF what this chick thought of you.

    You contact her direct, no messengers!! good luck man le tme know how it goes.


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