Went on a few dates with an HB8-9, nice chill girl but seems a little emotional/crazy. She canceled our first date but immediately set up another. The dates went great and her interest was high, she would pretty much initiate texting me everyday (even though I hate texting). She text me one night telling me she wants to come over , I agreed and about an hour later it seemed she was dillydallying and wouldn't give a straight answer on when she was coming over (it was already late and I wanted to go out) so I just told her I had friends in town who I was gonna go out with and that we'd have to do it another night, she immediately played the sad card but fark it she took too long so I just played it cool and didnt give in to it and talked to her a little more before I went to a party. She message me the next day playfully snipping at me for not answering her message the night before (I was out and didnt feel like talking) than after a little playful conversation tells me I never asked her out on another date. We messaged a little more than the next day she messaged me again, like usual, and after she says something about never taking her out for a third date again, I set up another date with her; she oddly didnt message me the day before the date and then canceled the day of a few hours before saying she wasnt feeling good and thought she was getting sick. I always half expect flakes so it didnt really bother me and Idc what any PUA says you don't call them out, it just makes you look like it was your priority and you had nothing else to do, it puts pressure on the situation and will never result in you closing, ever. So I just said it was no big deal and to get better. This girl, after flaking messages me again that night and when I'm semi unresponsive (I was watching a movie with the roomates) she sends me a message saying "talk to me :/". I waited till after I was done watching the movie than messaged her and went to sleep. The next morning around noon she messages me AGAIN, saying I "must not like her very much" when I asked why she thought that she responded that "getting me to talk to her was like getting a toddler to sit still", which absolutely isn't true, I talk to her plenty. So I just laughed and explained that I was a face to face kind of guy and not a phone guy. She said it was hard because of how far we lived (20 minutes so BS excuse) than said she was gonna stay away from me while she was sick but wanted to see me when she was better. At this point Idk what to do with this girl. I'm so tired of texting her its just annoying, pointless and boring but I feel like this girl is just running circles, even though she very may well be sick (especially considering she talked about how sick she felt the day after as well) I think if she wanted to see me she would have considering its been a week and a half since our last date where the momentum/interest was very high. She canceled the first date, bullsh1tted around before I called off our one date and than flaked our last date, yet shows massive interest. She is shy in person so Im thinking either A. She's not comfortable enough or feels pressured now that were getting to the point where she knows it'll get physic or B. she's keeping me around for text attention C. She really just had things come up. I plan on keeping her in my rotation, no harm as long as she's not a priority, but I'm just getting bored and need to meet in person again with this girl before she annoys me to death with texts to the point where I cut her out of my rotation for the semester (which I'm trying to make as big as possible for my senior year, YEAH YEAH!) as a side note she looked at my Facebook where I have tons of pictures with girls and she questioned me about being a player, that might also have something to do with this all.