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    Default New here and need some help...

    Hey everyone, I'm new here and also a big noob at texting girls. Actually, I ALWAYS screw up ><. I mean, I could text a girl for a long long time, but there's NEVER sexual Tension...

    So, this girl I'm texting now is actually someone who I used to study together with (she quitted class a few days ago though). Anyway, we never really talked during class, but last Moday we finally exchanged numbers. We messaged two days in a row already, but I'm afraid that I'm already down that road again of endless boring conversations. Any help on damage control (if it's even possible?) is welcome. Here's a part of today's dialogue:

    Me: My day’s good. Just came back from the swimming pool. So what are you up to?
    She: Swimming pool! Sounds so much fun, how was it?
    Me: Good. Burned the calories from yesterday’s steak, good music and a lot of sexy waitresses. lol
    She: Sexy waitresses! I want to be sexy too! lol

    I didn't reply yet.. Any ideas here? I really like this girl and I don't want to be "friendzoned" again, lol. Thx for the answers.

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    Default Re: New here and need some help...

    Use this. It's something I use and you'd be surprised how well it works.

    I call it simply, The Question Game. It's like truth or dare without the dare. Send this to her:

    You: Hey let's play a game.

    Her: Ok. What kind of game

    You. It's called The Question Game. We each ask each other personal questions that you HAVE to answer. If you don't then you have to ask the other person two questions as a consequence.

    It's a simple and silly sounding game. But because it's within the context of a game, women are more inclined to tell you really personal things. Such as roleplaying, favorite position, and even if they masturbate.

    Start off slow. Like "where would you want to live." or "what superpower would you have" then escalate to "what's your favorite uniform on a guy" and "what's the first thing you notice about a guy." Then ask what turns her on the most and what's her favorite position. Then BOOM, you're talking about sex. Easy.

    But don't push too hard. See if she escalates first. If not then you do it. But take your time if you have to. Mix it up by asking harmless questions inbetween the heavy ones.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: New here and need some help...

    I'd have a tough time with this one too. I wouldn't even know how to categorize it for a text book play but I'd compliment her on something that you think is sexy or that would be sexy. Don't out right tell her she is. She obviously has a lower self esteem, so you could play off that a little. But don't be too direct, underneath it all it will still come across needy.

    If you've seen her with her hair down... "I think it's sexy when you have your hair down, just something about it"

    If you haven't seen her with her hair down... "I can imagine you being very sexy with your hair down, not sure why, but I can just picture it"

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    passoabowl is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: New here and need some help...

    haha, then I blew it already. Said something like "If you were a waitress, you would be the sexiest one around ". She hasn't replied since then. Oh well, guess I'll have to move on since I think this is probably a lost one...

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    Default Re: New here and need some help...

    Just wait. I know its hard, but it is important. If you don't get a reply, Freeze Out. Give it 2 days and then reengage. Don't text about anything you recently talked about. She'll know it had been on your mind. Reopen with something else. Try Batman's game. That looks like a great way to snag her back in.


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