Re: New here and need some help...
Use this. It's something I use and you'd be surprised how well it works.
I call it simply, The Question Game. It's like truth or dare without the dare. Send this to her:
You: Hey let's play a game.
Her: Ok. What kind of game
You. It's called The Question Game. We each ask each other personal questions that you HAVE to answer. If you don't then you have to ask the other person two questions as a consequence.
It's a simple and silly sounding game. But because it's within the context of a game, women are more inclined to tell you really personal things. Such as roleplaying, favorite position, and even if they masturbate.
Start off slow. Like "where would you want to live." or "what superpower would you have" then escalate to "what's your favorite uniform on a guy" and "what's the first thing you notice about a guy." Then ask what turns her on the most and what's her favorite position. Then BOOM, you're talking about sex. Easy.
But don't push too hard. See if she escalates first. If not then you do it. But take your time if you have to. Mix it up by asking harmless questions inbetween the heavy ones.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."