Re: Texting first, is it a bad thing ?
I vote for taking initiative in texting so don't feel bad about it. Some chicks just don't initiate at all. Be the man, take the step and don't think about it too much.
About the other thing, I'm just gonna make one suggestion. Next time try doing the same thing to her.
When you feel like the convo is going great, like you should response right back and all, just don't. Catch a great momentum, then cut it off and see what happens. It usually drives the girls crazy. Personally it made wonders for me.
Experiment, experiment and experiment...
It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.
It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.