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    tjweqery is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Texting first, is it a bad thing ?

    So when we're having a conversation, she does not respond back (I always try to keep my responses flirt and playful), do you stop texting her until she texts you back ? Also, I always text first, sometimes they initiate it but not as much as me. Is this a bad thing ?
    I don't really know what to do when they don't respond back (they usually don't respond when we're halfway through a conversation), if I should initiate a new conversation or if I should just forget about them until they text me first ? Its not like I've showed any signs of neediness or anything either (which I make sure I dont).

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    Default Re: Texting first, is it a bad thing ?

    I vote for taking initiative in texting so don't feel bad about it. Some chicks just don't initiate at all. Be the man, take the step and don't think about it too much.

    About the other thing, I'm just gonna make one suggestion. Next time try doing the same thing to her.

    When you feel like the convo is going great, like you should response right back and all, just don't. Catch a great momentum, then cut it off and see what happens. It usually drives the girls crazy. Personally it made wonders for me.

    Experiment, experiment and experiment...
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Texting first, is it a bad thing ?

    Texting first is not bad, asu many girls will not initiate contact cause they think it may lower her value. Don't overdo it thoug, and if you are in boubt about sending a text, don't.

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    Default Re: Texting first, is it a bad thing ?

    What ive come to learn is if you are texting first, and they seem to be mutually excited about the conversation its a good thing, but if you are texting first Every time and they seem to just be going with polite convo and you end it and they don't re-initiate convo that's a bad sign. When they are like that I feel like they are boring so I drop them. Just some things I have noticed. And Wolf24 that is a great idea man, haha I will give that a try as well.

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    Default Re: Texting first, is it a bad thing ?

    Actually, a good sign of knowing when a girl is interested is when she starts a text convo first. Girls aren't going to waste their time initiating conversation, especially over the phone, if they don't want some sort of outcome. So if you've gotten to this point, your well on your way and after a few texts look to set up a meeting.

    Personally hate texting. I'd much rather go for a phone call and try to get a little more commitment right from the get go. But, it's a texting age... If your texting her and she's not responding for elongated periods of time, consistently, you haven't built enough attraction yet. Every once in a while she'll get busy, we all do, but if your waiting 2 hours for each text, she's just not interested. Not yet at least. Keep doing what your doing. Let her end a conversation and start a new one the next day. If you get to a point where you can ping a few back and forth real quick, be the one to lull it out. Wait 30 minutes, fire one back, let her respond, and try to ping a few more. When the convo hits a peak, suggest a meet up. Don't let it hit a peak and die out, this is a good way to become texting buddies. This I've learned from experience. When she is rapid firing them back, she's interested, take advantage and get that friggin girl to go out with ya, then you can do some real damage


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