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    Default Elusive girl finally start replying

    so i did somestuff and i think i have her intrest back. And i decide to ask her to hang out and go see the conjuring on saturday and this is our convo, Advice Critisim anything is welcome

    me 1:53pm : I hope you like horror movies
    her 1:56pm : Why?
    Me 1:57pm : I need a screaming buddy to go see the conjuring with
    her 1:59pm : oh haha
    me 2:09pm : I'm going to see the 12:20 one on saturday. shall we say 11:37?
    her 2:15pm :I dont know lol
    me:2:17p : alright next time then



    I know that she gave me some one worded texts but i finally got her to start replying so i hope im on the right track.

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    Default Re: Elusive girl finally start replying

    Im no expert on text game buddy, but heres what I see. You got her attention by saying something that peaked her curiosity where she had to reply which is great "I hope you like scary movies" then when you told her you need a screaming buddy she realized what you were texting about, when you asked her for the date you gave her the option of backing out of the whole "lets go together" kinda thing and the biggest mistake was giving her the option of naming a time. What makes her so special she can control your life? Be exclusive, your the one calling the shots, remember that. Keep it up buddy and keep it posted!

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    Default Re: Elusive girl finally start replying

    Quote Originally Posted by PUcowboy View Post
    Im no expert on text game buddy, but heres what I see. You got her attention by saying something that peaked her curiosity where she had to reply which is great "I hope you like scary movies" then when you told her you need a screaming buddy she realized what you were texting about, when you asked her for the date you gave her the option of backing out of the whole "lets go together" kinda thing and the biggest mistake was giving her the option of naming a time. What makes her so special she can control your life? Be exclusive, your the one calling the shots, remember that. Keep it up buddy and keep it posted!
    So if you were me what would you have said?

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    Default Re: Elusive girl finally start replying

    Quote Originally Posted by PUcowboy View Post
    Im no expert on text game buddy, but heres what I see. You got her attention by saying something that peaked her curiosity where she had to reply which is great "I hope you like scary movies" then when you told her you need a screaming buddy she realized what you were texting about, when you asked her for the date you gave her the option of backing out of the whole "lets go together" kinda thing and the biggest mistake was giving her the option of naming a time. What makes her so special she can control your life? Be exclusive, your the one calling the shots, remember that. Keep it up buddy and keep it posted!
    Respectfully disagree. This is a little over analytical.

    Your text exchange went well. Even better, I like that she was elusive, you worked your magic, and she hooked. Well done. Simply put, you gave up to soon. Almost all girls want to be lead, whether they know it or not. You controlled the time, your schedule, and hers, this is good. "I don't know lol" aka "I want to but I'm not sure how to say yes". Girls run, we chase. They liked in elementary school, they like it now. You had her snagged. A little convincing and she was in. Don't give up so soon.

    Her: I don't know lol
    You: Ok ok, your right, 11:37 is a little early. Lets say 11:38.

    Or

    Her: I don't know lol
    You: You can't make me see a movie alone! Nobody should have to be that guy haha. I'll come pick you up at your place...

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    Default Re: Elusive girl finally start replying

    Quote Originally Posted by Bballking View Post
    Respectfully disagree. This is a little over analytical.

    Your text exchange went well. Even better, I like that she was elusive, you worked your magic, and she hooked. Well done. Simply put, you gave up to soon. Almost all girls want to be lead, whether they know it or not. You controlled the time, your schedule, and hers, this is good. "I don't know lol" aka "I want to but I'm not sure how to say yes". Girls run, we chase. They liked in elementary school, they like it now. You had her snagged. A little convincing and she was in. Don't give up so soon.

    Her: I don't know lol
    You: Ok ok, your right, 11:37 is a little early. Lets say 11:38.

    Or

    Her: I don't know lol
    You: You can't make me see a movie alone! Nobody should have to be that guy haha. I'll come pick you up at your place...

    Well I see what your saying, but I do disagree. The text flopped fast, she wasn't interested in how he was coming off, that's plain and simple. But on the other hand I do agree with you on those two lines at the end, persistence

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    Default Re: Elusive girl finally start replying

    I do like the text exchange, but I tend to steer away from anything that makes me feel like I'm trying to convince her to go with me. In fact, I tend to stay away from a direct invite (Giving her no options and making all the choices of time and place) unless I've been out with her a few times and she's already used to complying. It's just too risky if you haven't talked in awhile and suddenly send an invite. I like to get into fun convo first THEN invite. In a way she has to EARN my invite and me picking her up by entertaining me with good conversation ya know.
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    Default Re: Elusive girl finally start replying

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I do like the text exchange, but I tend to steer away from anything that makes me feel like I'm trying to convince her to go with me. In fact, I tend to stay away from a direct invite (Giving her no options and making all the choices of time and place) unless I've been out with her a few times and she's already used to complying. It's just too risky if you haven't talked in awhile and suddenly send an invite. I like to get into fun convo first THEN invite. In a way she has to EARN my invite and me picking her up by entertaining me with good conversation ya know.
    Thing is how do i make her want to entertain me? like honestly i dont know anything i could say over text to make her want to do that. any more wisdom?

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    Default Re: Elusive girl finally start replying

    Yea you do. You just got a brain fart lol. Have a normal, humorous conversation. Crack jokes. Tease her. Talk about yourself. Talk about her. Then find a moment where you can say "You know what, I forgot how fun you are. I'm going to (fill in blank) you should join me." For more details there's texting do and don'ts on the website. But overall you need to have a full convo with her before shooting an invite out of nowhere.
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