Hi, new here. I am not dealing with the normal dating sites. I am doing the s3x dating sites, mainly Ashley Madison and XPress. I have been doing pretty well and I am chatting with an HB5, an HB7, and 2x HB9's. No, they aren't cam girls or prostitutes. I get my fair share of those and they don't engage for this long without trying to bait you to pay. I am 5+ replies with all of them. Two of them have hit me up with "What kind of relationship are you looking for?" in the past 24 hours. These two are the only two that leave no hints as to what kind of relationship they are looking for on their profile so I am in the dark. Both have made obvious sexual overtures but that isn't the problem.
The problem is some of these girls are looking for just a hook up and don't want the relationship and might not even want to see you more than once. Other's want something a little more long term. The girls on the sites vary from looking for sugar daddies or marriage (I know! On a sex site? WTF) to looking for a single or short-term hookup. I am positive both these girls are not looking for marriage or I wouldn't have even initiated contact. I want to land both these girls. I have tried to put them off with humorous dodges but they are persistent and I don't want to lose the momentum.
I really don't care if its long term or short term. I just want to have fun. I was married for almost 20 years and I am try to get some game back, get laid, and boost my confidence. Sorry this was so long but I am really stumped on this open ended question ("What kind of relationship are you looking for?") that they won't let me skirt.
Love these forums btw, just found them a couple days ago.