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Thread: Ashley Madison and XPress help with reoccuring question.

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    Default Ashley Madison and XPress help with reoccuring question.

    Hi, new here. I am not dealing with the normal dating sites. I am doing the s3x dating sites, mainly Ashley Madison and XPress. I have been doing pretty well and I am chatting with an HB5, an HB7, and 2x HB9's. No, they aren't cam girls or prostitutes. I get my fair share of those and they don't engage for this long without trying to bait you to pay. I am 5+ replies with all of them. Two of them have hit me up with "What kind of relationship are you looking for?" in the past 24 hours. These two are the only two that leave no hints as to what kind of relationship they are looking for on their profile so I am in the dark. Both have made obvious sexual overtures but that isn't the problem.

    The problem is some of these girls are looking for just a hook up and don't want the relationship and might not even want to see you more than once. Other's want something a little more long term. The girls on the sites vary from looking for sugar daddies or marriage (I know! On a sex site? WTF) to looking for a single or short-term hookup. I am positive both these girls are not looking for marriage or I wouldn't have even initiated contact. I want to land both these girls. I have tried to put them off with humorous dodges but they are persistent and I don't want to lose the momentum.

    I really don't care if its long term or short term. I just want to have fun. I was married for almost 20 years and I am try to get some game back, get laid, and boost my confidence. Sorry this was so long but I am really stumped on this open ended question ("What kind of relationship are you looking for?") that they won't let me skirt.

    Love these forums btw, just found them a couple days ago.

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    Default Re: Ashley Madison and XPress help with reoccuring question.

    Whoah I didn't even know those sites existed. Very interesting. Well I'll throw a suggestion out there and it may help you out. I'll leave it to your best judgment.

    Her: What kind of relationship are you looking for?

    You: Depends...

    Her: On?

    You: On a few things. How's your dancing/cooking/singing etc.?

    You should be able to steer the convo completely away from her original question without her even realizing. In theory. If brought up again I'd say

    "The kind that exposes me to new things." or something like that. Lol. I'm really just thinking of this on the fly.
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    Default Re: Ashley Madison and XPress help with reoccuring question.

    I see two ways of dealing with it, and both are by... simply saying the truth

    1 - think about what kind of relationship you are looking for, and tell them. "I really don't care if its long term or short term. I just want to have fun." seems like a decent answer to me. Remember, what YOU want is important, it should not be affected by what SHE wants

    2 - if that's not the kind of discussion you want to have on chat, well, tell them. "That's not the kind of conversation I like having through chat. What you doing Friday?"
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    Default Re: Ashley Madison and XPress help with reoccuring question.

    Hey thanks for the replies. Batman that is the tactic I took initially trying to steer them away from the question. Kind of an ego boost for me that we both had the same idea.

    Mika I went with your first suggestion. I tried an N-close on both these HB's earlier and that is what led them to the question. Seems like the answer is what matters before they take it further.

    Big thanks guys!

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    Default Re: Ashley Madison and XPress help with reoccuring question.

    Just an update. Crashed and burned on one but I am trying to repair that just for the mental exercise and experience. The other responded very positively.

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    Default Re: Ashley Madison and XPress help with reoccuring question.

    Could you elaborate. Possibly even post the convos. It would be nice to get an idea of what happened.
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