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    Default How to gen attraction and what after num close

    With online dating I guess I'm still experimenting with my routines/openers etc. I have seen a conflict in opinions on here. How quick should you go for the Number Close? I've heard a lot say literally in 5 messages yet example convos show a lot more. Also i tend to run my conversations into the ground which raises 2 more questions:

    How to you turn things sexual i.e. trigger attraction switches after starting indirect? (without being creepy)

    Also what kind of routine do you run and how long for AFTER getting the number? Many discuss how/when to get the number but not after it.

    Im a very text book kinda guy and cannot do anything unless shown exactly right in front of me lol I'm still at a confusion as how to apply an order of hooks,false takeaways, qualification, attraction etc. My ultimate goal is to have a foolproof routine with different answers for her possible replies. Im sure this is possible somehow...........

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    Default Re: How to gen attraction and what after num close

    My main focus when having a convo is expressing my sense of humor and building comfort. You really shouldn't be going sexual until after you get the phone number. The main part of the online convo is the get her comfortable enough to take it to the next level, which is the phone number and ultimately a date. You can get sexual after some texting prior to your first meet up. But you really have to feel it out.

    I usually wait until she starts to ask questions about me personally before I go for the phone number. I haven't had that fail once. You can get a phone number sometimes beforehand, but waiting until she starts asking you questions is the solid way to play.
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