Re: How to gen attraction and what after num close
My main focus when having a convo is expressing my sense of humor and building comfort. You really shouldn't be going sexual until after you get the phone number. The main part of the online convo is the get her comfortable enough to take it to the next level, which is the phone number and ultimately a date. You can get sexual after some texting prior to your first meet up. But you really have to feel it out.
I usually wait until she starts to ask questions about me personally before I go for the phone number. I haven't had that fail once. You can get a phone number sometimes beforehand, but waiting until she starts asking you questions is the solid way to play.
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