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    So this girl in my rotation who is normally pretty mild mannered messages me last night asking what I was doing. I was headed to a club and we joked about the types of girls that go to clubs. Next morning she text me and I quote "so how many slutss gave it up last night for ya (insert :-O emoticon)" I feel like this is kind of disrespectful and not really her buisness. Anybody else agree? How would you fellow PUA's respond to this nonsensical comment ( and yes this girl is interested I'm pretty sure). I'm either gonna a
    A. Just not answer
    B. tell her she's being disrespectful and to slow her role
    C. Play it off and ask her "do midgets count in that number?"

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    Hey Jts,

    I think its cool you have boundaries and I don't think you should bend them for any girls, so I'm tending towards B. Having said that maybe tone it down a notch. Something like. "Not comfortable answering that, smacks a little of disrespect, don't you think sweetness?"

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    If that truly gets to you then go with what you feel is right. However, she is poking fun, but kinda play flirting to see if you did hook up with anyone. She is interested in you. I don't really see it as a rude comment, its a good sign, she is basically throwing back any game you might have put on her, for example; girl goes to a club the night before, you say next day "oh man, you must have gotten really sleezy at the club last night huh, just like every other girl" then she tries to qualify herself saying oh no im not like that at all! she is using the same thing on you, line C. of your responses would be good to me, still playful, not answering her question, and keeping it smooth and fun

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    Yea I'm stuck between the two, PUcowboy I totally agree with what you're saying about it being a good thing that she's seeing if I'm talking to other girls, as a side note I try to refrain from calling girls out unless absolutely necessary, it shows they get to you. It really doesn't bother me too much, I just feel like she's constantly shit testing if I'm with other girls and its starting to piss me off a little

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    Rs5096- I don't talk about my past sex life with current girls and I don't tell them my number so I guess she didnt exactly cross a boundary I just didnt like how she went about it, I'm sure she wouldn't be happy if I said "so how big of a slut were you last night, did you get fucked by alot of guys?"

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    This is the thing, if it makes u feel uncomfortable I don't think u should supplicate. Clearly she likes u and I think u should take the relationship further but tell her how u feel. I think she would respect u more. U could use Push Pull here. If u go with b that's the push. Just pull her in after

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    I dig, I'm more in the comfort stage with this particular girl so setting some boundaries wouldn't be a bad thing but I also feel like she wasnt really asking me as much as she was teasing/poking fun, I think if I acknowlefge that she was disrespectful it kind of puts me in her frame where if I were to let's say exaggerate it I.E. " like twenty or thirty, but I had to get home to my other 7 girlfriends" it shows that I'm dominant and own the frame but also adds humor and takes the poison out of the question, I'm just not sure if that's something that should more be saved for the early attraction stage, at this point she likes me so I should be building rapport

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jts3443 View Post
    I dig, I'm more in the comfort stage with this particular girl so setting some boundaries wouldn't be a bad thing but I also feel like she wasnt really asking me as much as she was teasing/poking fun, I think if I acknowlefge that she was disrespectful it kind of puts me in her frame where if I were to let's say exaggerate it I.E. " like twenty or thirty, but I had to get home to my other 7 girlfriends" it shows that I'm dominant and own the frame but also adds humor and takes the poison out of the question, I'm just not sure if that's something that should more be saved for the early attraction stage, at this point she likes me so I should be building rapport
    ohhhhh quit thinking so much hombre, she was only joking. Don't be a hardass on her. Sure her delivery wasn't the best, but you get what she meant. I'm a guy who enjoy's humor so whenever a girl cracks a joke, I reward them. So to answer the Multiple Choice TEST that you left up above. C. That's my final answer.

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    It sounds like a sh*t test to me. I would have responded "oh about a hundred but who's counting." Never respond in a defensive way and never take this kind of comment too seriously. Instead, just play along and answer her in a way that gives her the response she doesn't expect. This way you remain non reactive and don't fall for her bait.Another option would be "oh, you're writing a book about my sex life. That's so cute. If you are really nice I might let you be a part of it."

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    Lilsting- I realize she was joking but this girl has just been relentlessly shit testin me and I'm just at the point were its becoming annoying

    Mystik- that's pretty much what I did, I just said probably around 20 or 30 if you don't count all 5 of my wives at home


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