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Thread: Girl I love moved away, what do I do?

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    Default Girl I love moved away, what do I do?

    I have known this girl for about 12 years, and I have occasionally had light feelings for her. In the last few years, we have become really close friends with a strong connection. Every few months or so when we're drunk at a party, we'll get intimate and make out a little, nothing serious. Lately however, I have been spending more time with her and have developed strong feelings for her. She stayed the night at my house last week and we made out a little, but mostly just laid together holding eachother. My feelings for her escalated to another level after that night, and I feel like I could love this girl. I've been in love before, so I know that it may be too early to tell, but I also know that it could happen. The only reason I have not acted on these feelings is because she moved last week, to a place about 4 hours from me. As I said before, I have known her for about 12 years, and I feel like I made a huge mistake letting her go. What should I do at this point? Should I confess my feelings for her, even though she now lives 4 hours away? I feel like she is not just another crush, and that I may be missing out on something huge.

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    Default Re: Girl I love moved away, what do I do?

    Easy. Move in with her.

    Lol no but seriously, long distance can be tough. I've done it a couple of times with women only and hour and half from me and it was tough. I guess you could ask her how she feels and what she's willing to do about it. Like move back into town. For future reference though, stop waiting. Carpe diem. Seize the day. This is the exact reason why we promote action and not sitting around waiting.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Girl I love moved away, what do I do?

    Wow. Interesting story. Well there's twos way at looking at this. You can sit there wonder what you had and kick yourself for letting the one go. Or chase for what you believe in. Now both have its pros and cons. Only you know what's right at the end of the day. If she's the one drive up there today and express yourself. If not let it be but she will always have a place in your heart. Remember go with what feels right to you!

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    Default Re: Girl I love moved away, what do I do?

    Whatever you decide to do, don't confess your love, man.

    Life is not like the movies.

    let's put this into perspective. You rock up on her doorstep, knock on the door and say, " i love you."; or

    You text her, "I wish you never moved away, I have such strong feelings for you I think I may love you."; or

    You visit her. take her out for coffee and say, " I wish you never moved away, I have such strong feelings for you I think I may love you."

    ...and then what? she decides to move back? you move there? you see each other on 2 weekends a month?

    It all smacks a little too much like Hollywood for my liking.

    If she had something tying her down like a future with you why did she move 4 hours away?

    Ashlars, I really don't mean to be flippant here but from the outside I just don't see how its gonna work out.

    I'm with Bats here carpe diem.

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