Well to cut a long story short. Was dating a lady for about 3 months. At first she wasn't at the top of my list but she grew on me. Then she basically said to me after a date what are we? Are we going to be something serious or keep going out on dates? I kinda stalled because I didn't feel I was ready. Well anyway I decide to take it further with her. Now 3 weeks later we got on the phone and she wanted to end it. I agreed. Now this is where I got lost. How do you go into wanting to being in a relationship. Too losing the connection you had for the guy and can't explain. To add a bit more detail she lives an hour away I do shift work and she does teaching. So we basically saw each other every other and the only we contact was mainly messaging. Not chatting on the phone. Well I have not made any contact with her. Since that day which was 5 days ago. Did I go wrong somewhere or was it her lost? Should I pursue or never message her again even though she said "let be friends"?