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    Default Break up makes no sense??

    Well to cut a long story short. Was dating a lady for about 3 months. At first she wasn't at the top of my list but she grew on me. Then she basically said to me after a date what are we? Are we going to be something serious or keep going out on dates? I kinda stalled because I didn't feel I was ready. Well anyway I decide to take it further with her. Now 3 weeks later we got on the phone and she wanted to end it. I agreed. Now this is where I got lost. How do you go into wanting to being in a relationship. Too losing the connection you had for the guy and can't explain. To add a bit more detail she lives an hour away I do shift work and she does teaching. So we basically saw each other every other and the only we contact was mainly messaging. Not chatting on the phone. Well I have not made any contact with her. Since that day which was 5 days ago. Did I go wrong somewhere or was it her lost? Should I pursue or never message her again even though she said "let be friends"?

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    Default Re: Broke makes no sense??

    What do you really want from her? Be true to yourself with what you want and tell her ( lol I know it sounds cliché)
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Broke makes no sense??

    It seems as though she was chasing you for the whole 'let's be official' thing. Could be that she was so fixated on this that once she got what she wanted; she didn't want it no more.

    Thrill of the chase and that old chestnut.


    As for not talking to her again; I personally wouldn't do that. Only from recent experience that is. Time can work wonders at times on the way a girl thinks and feels. A girl turned me down and put me in the friend zone roughly 8 years ago. I have recently F-closed her after bumping into her at a pub.

    So you never know. Keep in touch but don't over do it. If you really want to that is. Like I said time could change your mind too.
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    Default Re: Broke makes no sense??

    My thoughts: fuck her.

    Why put yourself under the emotional stress of trying to reconnect.

    Her actions are beyond your control. However how you react to her actions are. find someone closer to you and have a good time. NC and just have fun. If she thinks she's made a mistake she'll contact you again.

    There are so many gorgeous girls out there. why get hung up on one?

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