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    Default girl texted me she has a bf already

    So this girl and i who have been working together exchanged numbers today. She texts me that she has a bf ans says that she dosent know if its relevant or not.
    My question is what should i text back? I know most of you would say move on but I just wanted to be friends anyway. So what would i say that would make me come off as being playful and serious? I was thinking along the lines of "how many do you have" or "so you cant have guy friends? i feel bad for you" suggestions please

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    Default Re: girl texted me she has a bf already

    Bf destroyer lol. "Awesome! It must be the perfect relationship."

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    Default Re: girl texted me she has a bf already

    Listing is right, but maybe try to stretch that text over multiple texts so you Dont lose topic that fast .
    Example:
    HB: I got a boyfriend.
    You: cool does he treat you nice?
    HB:Yes
    You: that's good I'm glad you guys are having a good relationship.
    (Based this off one of my texts)

    Then keep using boyfriend destroyer's and text her such a way that makes her think you just want to be friends (careful not to friendzoned, friendzoned her but not the other way around). Then she thinks that you don't really care and point out flaws about her own boyfriend. 2 birds with one stone
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    Default Re: girl texted me she has a bf already

    What they said! Good bf destroyer stuff should be good. You don't really want to be her friend though haha, don't lie. If that were the case it wouldn't matter what you did, its super easy to make friends with women. Now staying out of the friendzone is what I bet you want, so yes, what these guys of great wisdom had to say

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    Default Re: girl texted me she has a bf already

    well i didnt wait lol and said "so you cant have guy friends? i feel bad for you" she responded "lol nope" now i dont know what to say or should i just say nothing

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    Default Re: girl texted me she has a bf already

    Quote Originally Posted by nba0203 View Post
    well i didnt wait lol and said "so you cant have guy friends? i feel bad for you" she responded "lol nope" now i dont know what to say or should i just say nothing
    honestly it is a mistake but use bf destroyuers still
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    Default Re: girl texted me she has a bf already

    I was just joking around, but use the BF destroyer if you want. User discretion advised. Also, if you do ever end up using it, present it more in a manner of how BigT and Cowboy were talking.

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    Default Re: girl texted me she has a bf already

    Say something like " aww that's too bad for him, how good is his cooking?"
    If she gives you an answer like "why?" or " he's good" or whatever she says, say something like " oh that's good because he can make some breakfast for me and you in the morning. Tell him I like my eggs sunny side up"
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    Default Re: girl texted me she has a bf already

    It's playful and gives the impression you're not intimidated by the fact that she has a bf.
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    Default Re: girl texted me she has a bf already

    I personally like marvilos lines. It makes the girl know your interested in food and its funny. I might just use that thanks!
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