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    Default How do I deal with a girl who never initiates text and thing response times

    She is gone for the summer but visits sparingly, maybe once a month. I went on one date with her. No f close. Since the date I've been texting here and there to keep interest and it has been working great.

    She replies 100% of the time, with great flirty texts. We text explicit sexual messages (mostly me leading but she always plays along) and she refers to me as darling, sweetheart, always with winky faces and always trying to seek my approval.

    With all this being said, she typically takes anywhere from 2-24 hours to reply. I usually match her text response time but throw it up a bit (sometimes right away, sometimes the next day). Lots of cliffhangers when I initiate. I know she truly is a busy girl but it seems she puts no effort into it at all. Another thing, she NEVER initiates the texts. I have gone over a week without talking to her.

    How should I treat this situation? Right now it's been about 4 days since I texted her and I left it off on the peak of the conversation.

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    Default Re: How do I deal with a girl who never initiates text and thing response t

    Here goes what is going on right now: she is in the most likely of cases not interested in you at all. The main reason is that she's gone and busy with a life different from where you are right now. She may see you as a very entertaining guy, but she won't fully invest the effort into maintaining things because a long distance relationship is something that she does not want right now. All she wants is to focus on her friends and her life. If she meets a guy in her environment that she likes, you are going to lose out instantly.

    You only have two options other than just continuing to do what you are doing at the moment, which is not working. The first is to cut off the conversation at a high and tell her that she has to initiate again at a set time. The other option is to simply call it quits with this girl and move on.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: How do I deal with a girl who never initiates text and thing response t

    I agree with Swagman's post. The girl is probably not that interested. You have only had one date... The girl most likely loves the attention she's getting from you, that's why she keeps texting back. But since there's no future for you two in the short-term she doesn't initiate. Just my initial thoughts.


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