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Thread: Help with new Facebook friend in Alaska

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    Default Help with new Facebook friend in Alaska

    Hey everyone, I'll get right to it

    So I just got back from a cruise to Alaska and met the coolest girl while I was on an excursion. My family and I went on a private zip lining tour and one of our guides and I were hitting it off the whole time (about a 4 hour excursion). We were constantly laughing together and she was definitely giving me IOIs. Long story short I felt too weird trying to start Kino with her as my family was with me and it wasn't the appropriate setting.

    I ended up telling her I'd Facebook her but I was so upset at the thought that I'd probably never see her again because she lives in Alaska and I'm on the east coast.

    Anyways, my question(s) is/are what can I do from here to try and reconnect with her on Facebook? I friended her but I want to know some things I can do/say to maybe keep her as a good friend and maybe get together if we ever cross paths again. I'm thinking about messaging but could use some help on what to say.

    Thanks so much in advance guys.
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    Default Re: Help with new Facebook friend in Alaska

    Judging by the sounds of things, you did everything right in person (she probably wouldn't have wanted to escalate things further either because she was on duty). You should have no problems with shooting her a message and getting some sort of interaction started up.

    Just a heads up, Facebook messaging game is just elegant texting game. For this girl, your best bet is to send her an opener that references back to a fun moment in the interaction that you two had. If any nicknames had developed in your time together, feel free to use it. Since you two have not seen each other in a bit, your goal is to get the engine re-started and running from the get-go. Best way to do that is to get her happy off of a memory of the two of you.
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    Default Re: Help with new Facebook friend in Alaska

    agree opener with a reference back to the special day!

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    Default Re: Help with new Facebook friend in Alaska

    ShoreGuy ..... Just be careful, I was in a similar situation last summer, met an incredible girl from Denmark who came to work at my lab for six months ...... We met, started dating, and spent an incredible six months together ..... Now as much
    as we talk about being Alpha, about the fact that there are billions of woman in the world , that we should be able to walk away, when she left, it ripped my heart out ..... Today we text every day, we Face Time, we do Facebook but it still kills me that I can't be with her. Now granted, Alaska is a lot closer to the east coast than Denmark is but long distance relationships are hard and bring a lot of heartbreak with them ....... Good Luck , hope you find what works for you

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    Default Re: Help with new Facebook friend in Alaska

    Hey ShoreGuy,

    I would open with a tease that refers back to the day that you spent together. Something like "Hey (nickname), you haven't let anybody fall off the zipline today ?".
    Then build comfort by talking about the great time that you shared together.

    Then it depends what you really think you want out of this. Do you really want to travel to Alaska to see her again ? Do you think that she would want to come and visit you ? Is she just going to be a long distance pen pal ? I guess you really can't know until you start the conversation.
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