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    luckychum is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to proceed with this girl....

    Hey

    I've been messaging this girl through a website and we've sent each other 6/7 messages and are getting on well..

    I asked her the question "so if you could have one thing in your life so that life is worthwhile.... and she didn't respond.

    Ths following night I sent her a message asking her whether we were going to play the game from the above question.

    She said yes, apologised and said she was working late, that she was heading out to a birthday party and whether we could play tomorrow. She then gave me her number.

    I haven't been in contact with her for about 4 days and was wondering how to proceed, should I recontact her on the website or send her a text given it's been 4 days and a text may be a bit out of the blue?

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    Default Re: How to proceed with this girl....

    If she gave you her number why didn't you call her?

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    Default Re: How to proceed with this girl....

    A text message is in no way out of the blue. Like Poker said, she gave you her number, which is permission to carry the conversation to phone.

    I would say though that the "game" you were trying to get her to play looked more like a dull and boring interaction designed to get meaning out of something. You should aim for fun, you should aim for flirty. If you aren't doing anything like this, there's no way you can get the girl.

    For an opener, I would say if there's any nicknames the two of you share, use them. Just try to make the conversation fun and flirty from the get-go. Do that, and you will be just fine.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: How to proceed with this girl....

    I agree with Swagman, it is not out of the blue.

    Only thing I might add: I don't know what website you were on, but if it's like a chat message kind of thing, don't let her leave you hanging like that. If she doesn't respond in an acceptable amount of time, use Di Carlo's text game Distract and End technique or whatever he calls it. Basically, pretend like she was still talking and just change the subject, and in the same message also throw in that you have to leave and go do something important (make it interesting, and be specific, don't just repeat the phrase "something interesting" ) This lets you take control and end the conversation, coming off as a busy interesting guy. Text game 101, always end the conversation. Never let her end it. That makes you seem like you're hanging on her every word. No good.

    I don't think there's anything wrong with the question you asked her or playing a little game, but if she doesn't respond on the very first try, don't waste any more time or value on it. Pretend you forgot about it and move on to something else. Some other opener or open-loop or whatever. Again, don't let her leave you hanging. If she does finally come back to it, you can continue the game, but otherwise, forget about it.


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