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    Default N-closed, fail at texting

    I'll preface this by saying I have read the guides and also bought how2txther. I am not a good writer and seem to have a hard time applying the concepts to get a conversation going. This continues to be a huge hole in my skill set.

    I N-closed a HB 9 Friday night. I sent a simple follow up message Saturday around noon...

    Me: Hey [HB9], it's [blitz] (aka lion tamer). I enjoying meeting you last night

    HB 9: Hey! It was great meeting you as well


    ... The lion tamer thing is from my routine and what I try to use to link back so she remembers me. Now, this is the point where I have a hard time getting my next text to hit.

    Before I share what I did send and have no response, at least so far, what it a good way to progress from here? I feel this exact interaction is key and I have been struggling with, even after reading several guides.

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    Default Re: N-closed, fail at texting

    Looking from what you put up if have to say you did fine
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: N-closed, fail at texting

    Yeah... My main issue is where to go next. I know the goal is to get her on a date. What would be a good follow up text? I used something almost straight from t-mal's guide to start up a fun convo but think it fell flat (24hr + and no response).

    I don't really care about this one per Se, but this stage seems to be a sticking point for me.

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    Default Re: N-closed, fail at texting

    Start a new thread and just start on a new day. Try to be more fun and sexual so you let her know your intend instead of sending mixed signals
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: N-closed, fail at texting

    An epiphany I had with some help was to make the date first, then get the number just for convenience. Secondly, I always will text something like:
    Just found out some important news...
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    I saw the wildest thing last night...
    The reason is because even if a girl doesn't even remember me, she'll respond because it's human nature to want to know.


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