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    Default How to respond to a text like this?

    Hello, I have been texting this cute girl who I have clearly busted the attraction out of, but I still need the practice, so here's the deal,
    I sent her a text saying "Aw look at you trying to act all hard to get. Real cute. Anyways we should grab a bite to eat sometime. I was thinking Starbucks, but you know, ladies choice "
    After her not texting back for roughly 2 weeks. She responded with "I'm playing hard to get?" So I'm not sure whether she's being serious, playful, or how to respond. Please give me some pointers. Anyone else having difficulty with texts from a girl feel free to comment your problems!

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    Default Re: How to respond to a text like this?

    If you really think she is playing hard to get, then you might try the following answer: "Help me out, who is this?(wink)"

    My thoughts on the fact if she's playing hard to get. It took two weeks for her to answer which means you are not her top priority. Even a woman playing hard to get couldn't wait to respond for two weeks. On the other hand if she wasn't interested at all, she wouldn't send you a text after two weeks of no contact. In conclusion she might be slightly interested but you're not her top priority. Just my piece of mind.

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    Default Re: How to respond to a text like this?

    Quote Originally Posted by PUAKevin View Post
    If you really think she is playing hard to get, then you might try the following answer: "Help me out, who is this?(wink)"

    My thoughts on the fact if she's playing hard to get. It took two weeks for her to answer which means you are not her top priority. Even a woman playing hard to get couldn't wait to respond for two weeks. On the other hand if she wasn't interested at all, she wouldn't send you a text after two weeks of no contact. In conclusion she might be slightly interested but you're not her top priority. Just my piece of mind.

    So what do you mean by "help me out, who is this?(wink)"?

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    Default Re: How to respond to a text like this?

    Maybe it's not a sentence in English (not my native language). The thing you want to achieve is to make her think you forgot her or deleted her number. So she texted you "I'm playing hard to get?". Now you just pretend like you don't know who she is (because you deleted her number or forgot about her). This way she thinks "mhm why has he forgot me, am I not likable enough?" She will now try to get attention of you to get that validation. You understand what I mean?

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    Default Re: How to respond to a text like this?

    Ok, that makes sense now. But if I reply, "who is this" and she says its _insert name here_, what would I say back?

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    Default Re: How to respond to a text like this?

    I would say something like: "ah (funny name how you remember her, for instance soccer girl)" Then start from scratch, "how have you been doing lately".

    So something like this:
    You: "Ah soccer girl, how have you been doing lately?"
    She: "Fine, you?"
    You: "I'm doing great, I have .... (insert story, preferably a bit exciting)
    She: "Oh that's nice."

    Also start to qualify her. You are the chooser, she could be chosen if you like her enough. So try to do this by asking for instance: "still living the boring life, or have you did something exciting" or something like that. The point is that she feels she has to defend herself and to be liked by you. She will do this by qualifying herself: "I have been (awesome activity)".

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    Default Re: How to respond to a text like this?

    Ok, that makes a lot of sense! Thank you. I will keep you informed.

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    Default Re: How to respond to a text like this?

    She hasn't responded in 4 days.. It also doesn't help I'm using kik and I see her name and profile picture... What do I do?

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    Default Re: How to respond to a text like this?

    It doens't look that good to be honest. What I would do from now is focus on other girls. You might try a new text in two weeks to see if she will respond, although I don't think she will.

    Cut your losses and game on!

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    Default Re: How to respond to a text like this?

    Ok, i don't know many people and am not that popular. I get 1 text every 3 days or so....
    Any ways to change that?


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