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Thread: Texted For Day 2, but

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    Default Texted For Day 2, but

    She said she was busy... How bad was my text response and how do I proceed? Should I wait a couple days and text her like nothing happened.
    What are some general ways to initiate a text in order to build rapport?

    And is a qualifying text opener ever a good idea?

    Me:Hey silly, there's this wine tasting place I want to checkout this weekend. Let's crash it! Is Sat or Sun better for you?

    Her: Would love to be ur accomplice, however I work doubles all weekend. I'm training unfortunately
    Maybe my schedule will be different next weekend.

    Me: No biggie (her name). Just hit me up next week and we'll take it from there...

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    Default Re: Texted For Day 2, but

    Your text response was good. You don't look needy, however there is a change she might not initiate planning the meet-up because women don't usually take much initiative escpecially in an early stage. So you might have to start bringing up the meet-up next week. Don't do it right now because that will make you seem needy.

    What are some general ways to initiate a text in order to build rapport?
    Make a statement about yourself so she can respond to that. For instance, "I went ice skating this weekend, I absolutely loved it." Now she might tell about her opinion on this subject, or you could ask her about her experiences with ice skating. Rapport is being build by just having regular conversation about each others lives.

    And is a qualifying text Opener ever a good idea?
    Making her qualify herself is definitely a good idea. Make sure you set the dynamic that you're the chooser and she is the one which might be chosen if YOU like her enough.

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    Default Re: Texted For Day 2, but

    Quote Originally Posted by PUAKevin View Post
    Your text response was good. You don't look needy, however there is a change she might not initiate planning the meet-up because women don't usually take much initiative escpecially in an early stage. So you might have to start bringing up the meet-up next week. Don't do it right now because that will make you seem needy.

    What are some general ways to initiate a text in order to build rapport?
    Make a statement about yourself so she can respond to that. For instance, "I went ice skating this weekend, I absolutely loved it." Now she might tell about her opinion on this subject, or you could ask her about her experiences with ice skating. Rapport is being build by just having regular conversation about each others lives.

    And is a qualifying text Opener ever a good idea?
    Making her qualify herself is definitely a good idea. Make sure you set the dynamic that you're the chooser and she is the one which might be chosen if YOU like her enough.
    Thank you for responding to my questions thoroughly.

    I think im going to go the qualifying route. I feel like there's been enough interaction for me to do it. The question is, how serious or playful am I making the question.

    Something like...

    "Tell me a dorky secret about you that most people don't know."

    How's that?

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    Default Re: Texted For Day 2, but

    "Tell me a dorky secret about you that most people don't know."

    This text could be used, although I would rather change it to "Tell me an interesting fact about you that most people don't know." The word "interesting" suggests that she should have something good to say and thus makes her qualify.

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    Default Re: Texted For Day 2, but

    Quote Originally Posted by PUAKevin View Post
    "Tell me a dorky secret about you that most people don't know."

    This text could be used, although I would rather change it to "Tell me an interesting fact about you that most people don't know." The word "interesting" suggests that she should have something good to say and thus makes her qualify.
    It's simple advice like this that makes a huge difference. I know text isn't the greatest place to do all this, but it's framing of it that will help in the future.

    Thank you.

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    Default Re: Texted For Day 2, but

    Quote Originally Posted by welp44 View Post
    Me: No biggie (her name). Just hit me up next week and we'll take it from there...
    It's good that you act unaffected by her busy response. In regards to the final text, I never leave it up to the girl to reschedule plans...it comes off as Beta. I'll usually get back to her in a few days for an update and finalize a date then. Personally, I like to go on dates during the week. If they're not working, chances are they don't have many plans so she won't have an excuse to cancel.


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