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    Default Sudden Change of behavior of the girl

    I have known this girl for about 1 month plus but for the 1 month im at overseas contacting her. After coming back, I have went out with her three times within 4 days. But right after our concert date which was planned long ago when im at overseas, she starts to not replying me in text. She also rejected my call when i tried calling her. Wondering what should i do and whats wrong.

    We had some Kino during our dates and we even had a planned date on a specific date of this month. She even said she will plan the next outing with me

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    Default Re: Sudden Change of behavior of the girl

    when you get indicators of interest you should take it somewhere.three dates was kind of a lot. you could have kissed her in one.she may probably be thinking you are just going to go on dates leading no where which is why she replied to that statement by saying she will help you plan another one.
    always have escalation in mind!once a girl is attracted she may want to move forward.a simple pure statement may do.
    some girls can be really interesting they come talk to you and when you part you sometimes see them most places you go that night.

    after that you may reengage.if you must call that day wait for a few hours or one day is best.run game and invite her to someplace like the mall think window shopping, a walk, a bar to play pool etc.
    wherever you guys go make sure that you have a place to sit down you should have been running game and getting IOIs.get the kiss close here.make sure you hold her hand at least and you are going to sit down, frame it as you guys should sit down for a while.

    i know you will get indicators before you ask her out

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    Default Re: Sudden Change of behavior of the girl

    Yea I have Escalation in mind but she kind of went off abruptly after the concert because she has to meet her female friend as she just broke up.

    So what should i do to salvage this situation? Wait for a few days and reopen?

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    Default Re: Sudden Change of behavior of the girl

    I think she may have gotten bored or was just not into the concert at that time.
    you may send that text in the evening anytime apart from today and call her the next day.then begin..

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    Default Re: Sudden Change of behavior of the girl

    I just casually asked her to join us to club with me and my friends yesterday and theres still no reply. Seems like I have to adopt ur solution few days later if not moving on..

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    Default Re: Sudden Change of behavior of the girl

    hmm.. that may happen if you don't follow structures. if you pull this off properly which i know you could you will have the results.when a girls is not open to you and you throw out out an invitation in your dynamic like that .overall you could get this handled if u may...

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    Default Re: Sudden Change of behavior of the girl

    She still doesnt reply to the msg that u asked me to send. Is there any last stand which i can do before i move on? Its so weird that she suddenly stops replying at all. Any way i can ask whats the reasons or something..

    I thought of inviting her to halloween event but it will then be out of structures again.

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    Default Re: Sudden Change of behavior of the girl

    First of all theres bounty on you since you invited her before you hit her up with that text.if you haven't contacted her wait one day and try hitting her up.if she doesn't budge theres another way.

    you sound a bit invested and want to take her out and escalate quickly but in your dynamic you would have to relax a bit.no halloween for now.you guys have been on few dates.if you invite her for another one just like that well its..PRESSURE sort of.doing that is equivalent to sending a girl to the movies if you are not really dating her.

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    Default Re: Sudden Change of behavior of the girl

    Yea was kind of disappointed cause the momentum just gone suddenly.

    What should i hit her up with this time round? And i guess the planned date on 31 aug is gone as well?

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    Default Re: Sudden Change of behavior of the girl

    if you haven't contacted her yet try calling.do not set up dates too far away.yur next step in your relation is to kiss her at least if you haven't.
    on setting dates make sure its a least 3 days maximum.am assuming you can run game since you got her...once she is engaged move things forward..


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