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    lucifer7 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Older woman saying “it takes time with me”: worth pursuing?

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    We were on the first "date".
    I suppose she's around 40, she didn’t wanna say and I wasn’t much interested in knowing.
    She’s quite attractive and with a great body, that’s more important than age .

    I'm not young but younger than her, and she said "you're a baby" when I said my year of birth, but she later forgot and I didn't repeat it.

    WHAT HAPPENED
    In a conversation she said “she’d wish for an engagement ring”. It was unrelated to me, but it got me worried a bit.

    I brought her home and we made out on the bed without bra but in spite my persistence didn't want to take the pants off.
    It was quite passionate though and we stayed there for quite some time, she was enjoying.

    Both in conversation and in the bed before leaving she said “it takes time with me”.

    GIVE ME YOUR OPINION
    I’m worried about 2 things:
    1. The “engagement ring” comment and the fact she says she’s very romantic worried me a bit about clingy behavior even though she doesn’t have any reason for thinking of me as a potential husband: I said I wanted to leave from here and the age difference seemed to matter to her;

    2. She said that it will take time with her. As she was really “engaged” in the make out I thought that might not be the case, but.. Could it actually be?
    I’m not that willing to spend too much time with her without nothing happening.

    What do you think?

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    Default Re: Older woman saying “it takes time with me”: worth pursuing?

    Give it another shot. Meet up with her again and see how things are progressing. Don't put all your focus on her, approach/meet up with other women. If she still doens't allow you escalating on the next meet-up you could stop seeing her. You might also try to be more direct and tell her your intentions. This could ruin your changes with her but at least you're not wasting valuable time.

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    lucifer7 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Older woman saying “it takes time with me”: worth pursuing?

    Latest text communications after I tell her to come over for dinner:

    HER
    Tomorrow yes but only in a public space! last time was too dangerous for me

    ME
    Kinky lady, people could see us in a public place .
    It will rain tomorrow, inside is cosier...


    HER
    Inside in some restaurant with good, reputable girl )

    (5 mins later)
    HER
    Hey, you still interested in the dinner, Mr Casanova?

    ME
    Yes, but I don't like restaurants, I want to feel free in more private locations..

    HER
    I'm not so free like you


    I'm a bit losing patience to be honest, she was enjoying and I believe she likes me, she knows -or should know- I don't want a relationship... What's all this childish thing of "dangerous" and "reputable"?

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    Default Re: Older woman saying “it takes time with me”: worth pursuing?

    You could probably close after a dinner date as she described; she's definitely interested, but what girl especially her age is going to say Sure, I'd love to come over for some sex? That's basically what you're asking...why not go to dinner and take her back to your place with a false time constraint (I have to work in the morning but come up for ten minutes and listen to this cool song).


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