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    Default Conversation Tips, where to go from here

    Now I am not a big fan of online dating, but being new to the world of pick up, I wanted to cast as big of a net as possible. I have what I think is a pretty effective opener. It has opened a solid amount of HB's, but the conversation tends to fizzle out fairly quickly so pointers here would be good too. I got this opener from Swagman on one of the threads he posted on here for funny conversation starters/topics. here is the conversation as follows.

    me: Ok I have a serious question, its a matter of life and death. If you were an assassin and you could kill any of the Disney princesses, which one would you take out?

    HB:Snow white. For some reason that hoe just pisses me off.

    Me: YES, finally someone who agrees with me, she pisses me off too. Shes arguably the dumbest of all the princesses, shes definitely the least hot and shes a total tease to all those dwarfs. As you can see I take my Disney princesses very seriously .

    Hb: Lol yea I can see. Also don't care for jasmine. Think she's kinda a bitch.

    Me:no way Jasmine is awesome, she has a pet tiger so shes cool in my book.

    Hb:Yea that's true

    Me:So whats your story? You seem like a woman of few words.

    Hb: That's because so many people message me on this thing that my phone freezes.

    And thats where I am so far. I was going to go with something along the lines of "oh look at you miss popularity" and throw in a hook or somthing to get her to say more, But I was looking for some ideas here. I dont care really if she messages me back, she is probably an HB8 or so, and I am looking at the online dating thing as a way to test some things out and develop some text game so I can be better with the numbers I get while sarging. The way I see it any dates/numbers I get out of online is just extra practice or opportunity, so I have been experimenting with different things and could really care less about the end result. Hopefully I will have that could care less attitude in actual game at some point. So any pointers would be awesome.

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    Default Re: Conversation Tips, where to go from here

    I enjoyed the Disney princess line; definitely a shit test haha. From my experience it's hit or miss with online dating, and the most important feature of a profile are the pictures. I have come up with some of the most creative, witty lines and gotten about as far as you did with average looking pictures. I think you've got a 50/50 shot with your line but it might also be funny to say "Me too. It's obnoxious!" as that would be a curve ball.

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    Default Re: Conversation Tips, where to go from here

    Good test. It looks like your test worked out fine
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Conversation Tips, where to go from here

    Lancelot, I like that haha, heres where the conversation is now.

    HB: That's because so many people message me on this thing that my phone freezes.

    Me: Same here its obnoxious isn't it? I think we both need better phones to handle the demand.

    HB: I can't see you having the same problem

    Me: I guess your right, I do probably get more messages than you so yeah not the same problem


    And we will see if she responds. Definite sh*t test there lol

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    Default Re: Conversation Tips, where to go from here

    haha definitely a shit test, nice last line! Keep us posted

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    Default Re: Conversation Tips, where to go from here

    Bro dont depend on canned openers they tend to fail, keep this basic principql in mind on online dating all you have to do is grab the attention of the girl you can send anything you find interesting like you can chat her up just by asking do you like computers?? Or something just be more creative with it and be straight forword its good to come to the point with a women early on she will be more attracted to you..... And for the last line you could have said stuff like "looks like you are popular or something like that to carry the conversation further" remember command is in your hands not hers...
    Nice guys don't finish last, boring guys does.

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    Default Re: Conversation Tips, where to go from here

    Quote Originally Posted by super_gamer View Post
    Bro dont depend on canned openers they tend to fail, keep this basic principql in mind on online dating all you have to do is grab the attention of the girl you can send anything you find interesting like you can chat her up just by asking do you like computers?? Or something just be more creative with it and be straight forword its good to come to the point with a women early on she will be more attracted to you..... And for the last line you could have said stuff like "looks like you are popular or something like that to carry the conversation further" remember command is in your hands not hers...
    I'm not sure what you're getting at with this. I think what he wrote is great. Bottom line: if you have good pictures, you'll get somewhere. What he responded with is not a 'canned' opener; it's a witty comeback line that surprises her and demonstrates confidence.

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    Default Re: Conversation Tips, where to go from here

    Super_gamer I dont like canned openers for in the field, they are way too cheesy to me, but online I have had much more success when going with something wild/crazy for an opener. It gets their attention much better. I was literally getting no responses with simple normal stuff from their profile or general conversation topics. The problem with my online profile is my pictures are not the greatest, I dont have many pictures of myself. But again I dont care too much about the online dating, its just extra practice. I thought I handled the whole conversation fairly well though she was a solid HB8. She never responded to my last line, I think I annoyed her with my last comment, based on her profile she was really full of herself and I dont think she liked me acting like I was better than her lol. Oh well! Thanks for the feedback everyone!

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    Default Re: Conversation Tips, where to go from here

    Quote Originally Posted by 2champ2 View Post
    The problem with my online profile is my pictures are not the greatest, I dont have many pictures of myself.
    No problem man. Like I said, this is really where it begins and ends. If you had super pictures, you'd be getting messages from women, which are actually quite hilarious; horrible game, one liners such as 'hi how r u'.

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    Default Re: Conversation Tips, where to go from here

    Its funny how everyone goes on a tangent and completely forget the question being asked, sorry bro i would help you, but i'm just getting started too.


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