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    Default Texting a girl that has a boyfriend

    Hello,

    Just me a really cute girl at Starbucks. She was sitting next to me and started chatting with me. During our conversation, she mentioned her having a boyfriend. I still got her number but I'm trying to convince myself it was just a friendly thing.

    I got her number, Any advice on my move or not a chance?

    Newbie

    Bw

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    Default Re: Texting a girl that has a boyfriend

    You're first step should be to put yourself in the friendzone and build rapport bothe wide and deep. While at the same time dhv ing: telling her DHV stories, talking about your awsome plans for the evening... After she trusts you you will use the straw man technique and this :http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...html#post32086 I briefly discussed the straw man technique in the beginning. It's the part about building up her bf
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    Default Re: Texting a girl that has a boyfriend

    Or just "use" her as a Pivot, and go after her friends
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: Texting a girl that has a boyfriend

    Thanks. Xavier.and mich.. Ill look.around for bf killer. And sorry for.the double post. Got too excited. haha

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    Default Re: Texting a girl that has a boyfriend

    Girls give away their number on a regular basis. If you feel there was no flirting going on, there most probably wasn't any, and she isn't interested.

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    Default Re: Texting a girl that has a boyfriend

    The best advice I go for when going after a girl with a bf is all bets are off unless she's one of my friend's gf cause I value friends over women. ( Bros before Hoes)
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Texting a girl that has a boyfriend

    I love Xavier's advice. He's right on, but I also wanted to add, if you think this is going to happen super fast it's not. Unless she's been with the guy for under a few months it's going to take a long time to get her to come around. I'd just use her as a Pivot or as social proof man. Because honestly it's usually not worth it at all to go through all the work.
    But if you really want her, don't just put yourself in the friend zone and become her little slave boy. Build a ton of rapport but don't supplicate. I would type out more but I'm on my phone and am getting busy. Good luck


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