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    Brojaysimps is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Not sure how to proceed after day 2

    So I reconnected with an old school friend and we hit it off really well, probably best first date I've been on. She gave off tons of ioi's and we
    As holding/kissing me essentially the whole date.

    Next, she goes out of town and we text probably every other day, kept it short and fun.

    She comes back to town 1 week after first date, gets her wisdom teeth removed and I brought her soup/ice cream and we had a move night at her place. She asked me to stay with her so I slept over and there was lots of cuddling but no action due to the circumstances.

    After I left she texted saying thx for coming over. I texted her later that night but she was kind of short most likely didn't feel good.

    Now, 2 days later with no contact I'm unsure what my next move is, any help appreciated.

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    Default Re: Not sure how to proceed after day 2

    You should definitely text her. Set up a next meet up as soon as possible and escalate on that date!

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    Brojaysimps is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Not sure how to proceed after day 2

    Hmmm. Well I texted and we had a strange conversation.

    She declined when I asked to hang out last night but she did say "we should be able to hang out this weekend". She, again, seemed short and didn't ask anything like "how was your day" as she normally has. I told her to text me later but haven't received a text.

    I'm getting a strange vibe as the way she's acting is just different than the way she was the first few weeks.

    How should I proceed with this one?

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    Default Re: Not sure how to proceed after day 2

    Is she in bed on pain meds, or back to normal?
    Coming over with soup and cuddling her was sweet but I'm concerned she may have gotten too comfortable with you as a result (more comfort, less attraction, in other words). There is something about staying over with a girl and just cuddling that seems to fark everything up, at least in my experience. Unless of course you've already had sex a few times then it doesn't really matter. Cuddling is something that women do with each other and their friends, or post-sex.
    I would freeze it. Go game some other girls then in a few days if she hasn't come running you can open it back up with something witty. You'll have to get back into the attraction building and 'push' phase of the push/pull.

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    Brojaysimps is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Not sure how to proceed after day 2

    Yes she's still on pain meds - and busy at work - and moving this week. So probably extreme busy.

    Yea, It was more comfort than attraction, there was some kissing/touching but more so comfort than anything else. Obviously w/ her having everything going on I'll just let her do her thing. What kind of witty comment are we thinking we should go with next week if we hear nothing?

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    Default Re: Not sure how to proceed after day 2

    She just sounds busy dude. Just go dark. You had a good night but your attempts to get together or even txt her right now are probably annoying her right now. Just leave her, let things settle.

    I would even wait two weeks, I would guess you may hear from her before that. If you haven't heard anything after two weeks and you still want to see her don't worry about a witty comment, just go straight to trying to set something up to hang out.

    Sklar

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    Default Re: Not sure how to proceed after day 2

    That sounds like the best idea and what I will plan on doing, thank fellas.


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