Ok, so I got a d2 with an HB8 from OKcupid. First meeting went for drinks, chatted for about 2.5 hrs and accepted a lift home from me. Was going to k-close in car but when we got to her place she kinda leaned into me and announced "hug", so we hugged goodnight . I mentioned it was fun night and we should do it again and she agreed but I made the mistake about not closing the details of the d2 right then and there.
Anyways, all that being said, I texted her about 24hrs later with the nice night bla bla stuff, and a question which related back to a funny moment from the previous night. She texted back about five hours later, but the reponse was good, even asking me a question (i.e. wanting me to respond to her text now). I was actually out with an HB7 at the time so didn't see her text back for a couple of hours which was good.
When I got home I replied, and said we should do dinner next week and suggested Wednesday (which was the day we went for drinks). She replied back (after several hours of course ) that she couldn't do Wednesday and suggested Friday instead. I told her that works and that I would "give her a shout after the weekend with plans". I wished her a happy Birthday weekend (it was her Bday Saturday, she wrote back right away saying thanks, and told me to have a good weekend too), and I have not texted or contacted her since.
So this is where I am getting hung up and I know I am probably overthinking it but when should I call (today is Tuesday). I was thinking today because 1) I dont want to call Weds because it seems she's busy that evening and 2) I don't want to call Thursday because I think I set an expectation that I would call sooner than 24 hrs prior to d2. At the same time, I feel like calling today (on Tuesday when d2 is Friday) seems a little needy? Again, I know I am probably overthinkng this and I whenever I call probably won't fark things up too much but just looking for some input.