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    sklar is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default When to call to confirm details of D2 in this sitch?

    Ok, so I got a d2 with an HB8 from OKcupid. First meeting went for drinks, chatted for about 2.5 hrs and accepted a lift home from me. Was going to k-close in car but when we got to her place she kinda leaned into me and announced "hug", so we hugged goodnight . I mentioned it was fun night and we should do it again and she agreed but I made the mistake about not closing the details of the d2 right then and there.

    Anyways, all that being said, I texted her about 24hrs later with the nice night bla bla stuff, and a question which related back to a funny moment from the previous night. She texted back about five hours later, but the reponse was good, even asking me a question (i.e. wanting me to respond to her text now). I was actually out with an HB7 at the time so didn't see her text back for a couple of hours which was good.

    When I got home I replied, and said we should do dinner next week and suggested Wednesday (which was the day we went for drinks). She replied back (after several hours of course ) that she couldn't do Wednesday and suggested Friday instead. I told her that works and that I would "give her a shout after the weekend with plans". I wished her a happy Birthday weekend (it was her Bday Saturday, she wrote back right away saying thanks, and told me to have a good weekend too), and I have not texted or contacted her since.

    So this is where I am getting hung up and I know I am probably overthinking it but when should I call (today is Tuesday). I was thinking today because 1) I dont want to call Weds because it seems she's busy that evening and 2) I don't want to call Thursday because I think I set an expectation that I would call sooner than 24 hrs prior to d2. At the same time, I feel like calling today (on Tuesday when d2 is Friday) seems a little needy? Again, I know I am probably overthinkng this and I whenever I call probably won't fark things up too much but just looking for some input.

    Sklar

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    PUAKevin is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: When to call to confirm details of D2 in this sitch?

    You're overthinking this situation! Just call her now, if you call later down the week there's a change she has made other plans. You said to her you would call after the weekend, that's the case here so don't worry. It would be different if you couldn't hold yourself and called saturday or sunday already. So just make the phone call, if she doesn't want to meet up then you still have time to make plans with other girls.

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    sklar is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: When to call to confirm details of D2 in this sitch?

    Thanks man, you're right was way over thinking this. Called her, left message, called me back, all's good for Friday.

    This PUA stuff is great but sometimes its my worst enemy, causes me to over think the simplest situations.

    Sklar


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