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Thread: is it time to let it go or something worth chasing still?

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    Default Re: is it time to let it go or something worth chasing still?

    I never initiate or bring up relationship with girls! used to do it years ago & got nowhere lol. I am guilty however of getting comfortable & gaming less when I start to like them

    Quote Originally Posted by Lancelot View Post
    She is on the fence now, and you are in the danger zone. So I would use friend zone destroyer techniques- I think I mentioned a few of these in a previous post, if not I'll write you a scenario- in conjunction with freezing and amping up your attraction/seductor game.
    yeah that's how I read it too. I've avoided dragging out any text convo that get's started & even waited hours between replying b/c I've been busy.

    That would be awesome if you could do that for me. I did a quick search but everything is about going from already being friends.
    As I said I think I have her investing more in our text convo's now but would be good to see if I just have my hopes up lol

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    Default Re: is it time to let it go or something worth chasing still?

    1. Break the Pattern/Routine
    -Interrupt a conversation/chat mid-flow because you have a friend that just came over or some other reason, and you have to go.
    -If you already have plans, don't part the Red Sea in order to do something with her. Just let her know you already have plans, but next time.
    -When you do meet up (somewhere different), make a casual remark about another woman "I wouldn't mind talking to her," or "She's really confident, that is soo attractive."
    2. Game other Women
    - I know, it's not gonna be easy. Force yourself to do it. It'll help tremendously.
    3. Meetup with her and use your push/pull and Kino Escalation. Reward her when appropriate, and push when appropriate. Maintain eye contact, glance down at her lips occasionally, slow your rate of speech. Don't use any fancy kiss close techniques, other than escalating, closing the space, and then just do it. Immediately pull back and say, we shouldn't do this, it's so fun to just hang out (her objection!) then continue kissing. Bounce back to your place; if you anticipate objections you can simply say, "Let's go somewhere quieter where the drinks are cheaper." Continue escalating and try to f-close. If she objects, which she will, just agree with her, and draw back (push), then start over again maybe with her hands or just kissing her. If it happens more than twice, shut everything down and call your friend. Have a conversation, laugh and smile. Or check your email. When she says, "Is everything alright?" you can deliver a stunning speech. "Of course! I just kinda shut down if both people aren't into it. That's kinda the point for me- sharing something together that you both want and you'll never forget. I have so much respect for women...no means no, ya know? But yes...yes is what life is all about." Go over and start slowly again.

    I hope this helps. While these are "friend zone" Destroyer techniques, they are also attraction building techniques. A woman needs to be challenged.

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    Default Re: is it time to let it go or something worth chasing still?

    Awesome read! thanks heaps you guys have been awesome & I can't wait to be able to start offering the same solid advice!!

    we were texting this morning again & by playing it cool she called me after a text & said she was coming to see me, she followed me to the pub while I had lunch & even got her to go to the bar n get me a drink lol. We hung out for 4 like hours & then she spent 30mins drawing on my arm lol.

    Im going to post a detailed FR if anyone wants to read & critique it. hopefully it may help someone in the same position

    Thanks again guys


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