Quick back story:
Been dating this HB for almost 3 months now. we talk everyday by txt & on the phone & hang out most w/e's .
we stay at each other's house but she wont have sex yet (she has to be in a relationship, major ASD & strong morals).
Last week I got her down to her panties (never even let me close before so im thinking she's getting some pretty strong feelings etc)
Then she freezes me out for a few days & drops the "nothing serious" line on me.
I've been over that night & poss buyer's remorse in another thread (big ups to lancelot for his help there) but wanted to share the txt's since then & get ur thoughts & advice on my next move.
so I went & talked to her & didn't get much of a result so I txt'd her hoping she might open up more through txt:
Me: do you want anything to change with us or were you jus making sure we were on the same page?
HB: I don't know hey. I know im super annoying im sorry...ATM im just over the whole lovey dovey thing.
Me: Na all good your a female & prob doesn't help that ur no good at it either
Its just a shame you place so much importance on labels...
HB: yeah well, cant be good at everything right hahaha
Na I dunno its just like if we hang out u'd rather make out n stuff where id rather just hang sh1t on each other n mess about doin stupid fun sh1t....
thanks to Lancelot I've realised I've been too available (which im going to fix) but not sure if a Freeze Out would work best here or still hang out but only day dates, friend zone her & make her miss that bf side of me
would really appreciate your thoughts & even a reply to her last txt
She's the 1st girl I've met with LTR potential & this is what's messing my game up lol
P.S sorry for the length just want to make sure it has all the information!