Re: Good opening text or did I completely sh1t the bed?
Yea man, it does suck. It sucks for anyone, man or woman, when another person tries to feed them bs because they just don't want to tell them the truth. In the future, if you notice that the girl is having problems with giving you her number, she is being bitchy, or she is giving you some other form of bs, then just tell her this:
"Look, if you don't actually want to [insert verb], it's alright. I just took you for a genuine and interesting person that I really wanted to get to know better. I guess I was a bit off on that part. Well, I hope you have a nice evening."
Say all of that in a cool manner with a smile, then walk away. If you do all of that right, then you are golden. This is known as the challenge, and if you do this, she will be compelled to respond back to you for the reason of proving you wrong. When she goes after you, the ball is in your court and she is in your hand. She will ramble on about how you are wrong and so on. The key here is to maintain an air of superiority and cleverness, and in addition make things difficult for her.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X