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    Default Good opening text or did I completely sh1t the bed?

    Ok gist of the story. Bagged this chick who had a rough night last night at around 5ish AM

    Before we ended our convo, I asked for her number. She didn't have her phone, and she was giving me her number and began farking it up, so she asked her friend to hit me off with it, and she does without pause. Literally never seen anyone ever do that; but I'm thinking to myself, if she wanted to give me a fake number, she would've just continued and not asked her friend to drop me the number. Right or wrong?

    Anyway, she asks me "Are you going to be a pig?" I respond "No, why? Because I am a pig?" Yea it's exactly what you think and she already knows at this. She laughs, I tell her I'll hit her up later, and we all part ways.

    Around 10am ish I shoot her a msg:

    "Hey what's up. You ladies make it in ok?" -General concern considering they had some 20+ blocks to walk on foot at that time in the morning.

    Then followed up with "Btw it's *insert my name*, your favorite pig from *insert where I work. She knows this too*, lol."

    Was that a solid first text? I mean she hasn't responded yet, but I chalk that up for because she is human and needs to sleep. But just so I know what would be the ideal window you guys would wait before teh follow up, if any at all?

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    Default Re: Good opening text or did I completely sh1t the bed?

    At the pig comment, I might have responded with a Porky Pig impression, like "ebdebedebe why do you say that?". No one can miss a Looney Tunes reference lol

    Now onto the more serious side of Swagman.

    Your comeback with the pig comment was pretty good. Clever, and got a good reaction out of her. Unless her IQ is 12 or she just got her phone yesterday, I highly doubt that she is incapable of remembering her own number. With this in mind, I think that she might have blown you off by having her friend give you a number. It may be her's, or it may be some random fat dude who sits in his chair and plays WoW all day, you can't be certain.

    Your concerned message the next day is decent. I can feel a positive energy reading it, and although it's frowned on to double message, your second message was good in content. I just would have waited to send that second message until she responded back. The window for your follow-up was appropriate; within the next day is always the best time to message her after night game.

    Overall, the interaction is mixed. I wouldn't worry much about getting a response back from her quickly, but I would also anticipate the potential for her to not even respond back at all. If that is the case, then it is your best bet to move on and hit up some new targets.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Good opening text or did I completely sh1t the bed?

    Thanks bro. Yea that's what I was thinking about her whole not remembering her number thing.

    Anyway, I decided to check a little about the legitimacy of the number. Got the msg "At the subscriber's request this phone does not accept incoming calls"

    She/owner of the number either didn't pay the phone bill, had the phone turned off by the one who does pay the bill, or just blocked everyone in general, lmao.

    Great advice as always.

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    Default Re: Good opening text or did I completely sh1t the bed?

    Yea man, it does suck. It sucks for anyone, man or woman, when another person tries to feed them bs because they just don't want to tell them the truth. In the future, if you notice that the girl is having problems with giving you her number, she is being bitchy, or she is giving you some other form of bs, then just tell her this:

    "Look, if you don't actually want to [insert verb], it's alright. I just took you for a genuine and interesting person that I really wanted to get to know better. I guess I was a bit off on that part. Well, I hope you have a nice evening."

    Say all of that in a cool manner with a smile, then walk away. If you do all of that right, then you are golden. This is known as the challenge, and if you do this, she will be compelled to respond back to you for the reason of proving you wrong. When she goes after you, the ball is in your court and she is in your hand. She will ramble on about how you are wrong and so on. The key here is to maintain an air of superiority and cleverness, and in addition make things difficult for her.
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