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    Default Hot and cold and warm and cool and every tempurature there is

    I graduated high school recently and there was a cute younger girl in my school who I never talked to, except on the last day. We started talking over Facebook, and from what I could gather she seemed into me. When I tried to calibrate I noticed she really liked to pump herself up, so I used a neg to deflate her a little bit so she wouldn't think she held frame. Her reactions throughout the convo are so hot and cold I completely uncalibrated, and thats thrown me off.


    • Woahhh don't appreciate being poked, fingers hurt you know
      HB: Woahwoah, you hurt me first. Clearly you started this poking war okay.


    • Yeah but you have nails, I don't.. It's like me tickling you lightly across the side then you decide to cut my ribs out of my body hahaha


      HB: Idk not that you're stronger than me or anything like that. You could probably do some damage with those pokes of yours.


    • Be as it may I potentially could bench press you, I'm actually as soft and gentle as a teddy bear



      Besides, only good things come from my pokes


      HB: My pokes are pretty special too. Please buddy i could bench press you.
    • Magical things come from mine, what are your's special ability? Hahahahahaha I would love to see that


      HB: What are you a magician? Hmm i dont you can handle it. Ahaha idk yaa know i wouldnt want to show off or anything.


    • I think your missing a few words there, try again little one Some girls tell me so, I just like to think I always have a few tricks up my sleeve



    • HB: Umm dont call me little, Remember i can bench you. Aha it's my phone, it's pretty messed up. Lol like what?



    • ahhh so dreaming is your special ability I'm not one to kiss and tell, but things you haven't experienced before


      HB:maybe i have experienced your special ability, that you wont tell me.
    • Hahaha if you believe you have, then dont take my word for it. I just think its better to judge after the experience rather then before


      HB:Okay ahah ill take your word for it.
    • Listening to your elders, maybe you aren't such a brat after all

    • HB: Woah calm down you're not even that much older than me okayy. Oh you thought i was a brat:/ thankss

    • It's not necessarily a bad thing, your just fun to tease Age doesn't really matter to me

    • HB:Thanks you're so nice! Still im not much younger.

    • Fine, tell me your age then dorkbutt hahaha

    • HB:Kay goof. I think you know what grade im in, figure it out since you're like a magician.

    • Calm down there (: can't call me that until you've seen a magic trick hahaha



      Im off to Ontario tomorrow for nationals so im off, shoot me a text ******** your fun to talk to


      HB: I dont want to see until you tell me what it is. Umm i hate texting ppl first. Text me (: 6*****

      btw nationals for what?

    • text me to find out (:

    • HB omg you're real stubborn.


    So I ended up texting her first, after waiting a little bit


    Hahaha sometimes I can be. Sailing nationals


    HB: Sometimes... No im kidding, you texted me first thats a good sign. You're a sailor and a magician damnn boy ;* aha i didnt even know that had that.


    I do alright. Fun fact: It's the only Olympic sport that you can be drunk while doing. What type of sports are you into?


    ---> Just realized that text probably killed it a little bit.. thoughts?



    HB:Im sorry like what do you do? I dont really get it. You actually do it while getting drunk? Im more into kickboxing.


    Im taking boxing lessons once I move up to uni in a few weeks! You race around a course, which is a bit more difficult then it sounds, you have to be able to predic things like wind, waves, current, and tide.


    Dont get me into it though or I may end up boring you for hours hahhaha


    HB:Its fascinating not boring okayy.


    Ever been sailing?


    HB: No only like motor boats


    Hahaha you sound like a fan of motorboating


    HB: ahaha omg you're actually sick.


    What, I'm just saying getting a little wet is fun hahaha


    Everybody likes splash fights


    HB: Idk you seem to be enjoying it more than me
    ---->WTF This threw me off


    Eh I guess you not as fun as I thought then


    HB: oh okay thanks


    Hahaha your cute tell me about your kick boxing


    HB: Ahh lol dont call me cute, I hate itt! um well im pretty good, i could probs kick your ass <3


    Sorry to break it to you but there is no way you could kick my ass OMG I just had the best pasta ever...


    HB: Im pretty sure I could sailor ;D yeah no one cares. Kidding <3 What kind of pasta was it?


    Think again Jackie chan, you wouldnt know what hit you!! This Italian fettuccini with blah blah blah


    HB: Woah you would really hit me. Thanks, very nice of you. Does sound good, where did you get that?


    Nah im more of a tickler hahaha. Im not giving you my secret resturant locations, you could be a spy!


    HB: I dont like beign tickled and im not to blame for anything that I do. Yea because you know im really creepy like that. Lool please dont flatter yourself, now tell me.
    ---> ANOTHER WTF


    Ask nicely Jackie No your accontable for everything you do, that way you only have yoruself to blame when I kick your ass.


    HB: No im not accountable. They are tickle me so its their fault. You wish you could kick me ass.


    Somebodys eager to fight me hahaha, I'm totally calling you "spunky" for now on. Is kickboxing a passion for you or just a way to keep fit?


    HB: No I refuese to be called that, i dont like that. No i really enjoy it, but I also really enjoy staying fit.


    Really, what about it do you enjoy


    HB: Well my instructure is pretty good looking, I enjoy that. idk p i like learning different techniques, and not being a wimp!


    I remember back when I did Judo the best feeling was when you caught somebody on a new move! Their expression afterwards= priceless


    HB: Where did you go? and like why dont you do it anymore?


    Mostly time constraints with my aprents and school, I still used a form of it in wrestling so im not out of practice.
    I think everybody should know how to fight one way or another


    3 DAYS LATER
    Hey Jackie Chan what type of trouble have you been up to?


    HB: Im a fricken angel.


    Sounds boring. Getting into trouble is much more fun (:


    DAY LATER



    HB: So now im boring


    DAY LATER


    My lax team is having a rookie party tonight, feel free to tag along


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    Default Re: Hot and cold and warm and cool and every tempurature there is

    I see a few minor but costly errors.
    1. Don't respond to every word she says, it's like you guys are having six different conversations at once in one sentence, pick one subject and stick to it, if she says I'm really cold puppies are cool and so is spaghetti dont respond to all three things just pick one that interest you or you'll run out of interesting things real quick.
    2. When it comes to texting LESS is MORE, your overtalkativity will turn you into her texting buddy/BFF. You made it way to easy and acted way too excited to text. Remain a challenge. If you tell her everything about yourself through texting than what do you have to talk about in person? Don't tell her shit about yourself through text, remain flirty and have you're goal be to meet in person which leads to my third thing
    3. You didn't escalate quick enough, strike while the iron is hot my friend! Since you got her number before really attracting her in person you only have so long before that attraction fizzles and believe it or not girls don't want a guy who text them all day, that's what their girlfriends are for. You stayed in teasing/attraction way to long and it came off like you had nothing better to do. Next time have the goal of you're flirtatious text be to meet up for a casual get together. I personally like to tell a girl she's going to have to prove herself and when she asks how tell her to make you cookies or something that you know she's good at. It a. Sets the frame of her seeking you're approval B. cookies usually leads to nookie, if you catch my drift. Also try to space you're text out more and let her initiate now and than and if she doesn't wait at least a day or two in between but still the goal is to get OUT of texting not to remain in it, texting is a poor mans form of attraction and only goes so far. Get that date setup within 20-30 text and than END the convo.

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    Default Re: Hot and cold and warm and cool and every tempurature there is

    Also the spots where you're going Another WTF, she's just teasing you dude , just like your doing to her don't get upset because the girls witty and has a sense of humor, if anything reward her for that. Develop tougher skin when it comes to women, you have to remain cool and not let what they say affect you just laugh it off and keep up the flirty replies. It's also pretty evident that you acted beta and needy when she didnt respond, you sent a text saying "so I'm boring now?" That is a HUGE no no. You let her affect you and you were waiting around for her answer. Don't let whether she responds have any bearing on you. It made you seem insecure and very beta. Don't ever get upset if a girl doesn't answer, always remain cool and pretend it never happened. I remember I text a girl I had number closed and she didnt answer for a whole day. Turns out her phone had broke but if I had acted all beta, got upset and said something like so you don't wanna talk to me ? Than when she got her phone back she would have saw that and assumed I was needy. But because I played it cool that girl wound up being my girlfriend for several months. Always be cool my friend, don't let insecurities get the best of you.

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    Default Re: Hot and cold and warm and cool and every tempurature there is

    Lmao and she seems to be an anti pua chick. Countering and hitting you with everything you direct at her.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Hot and cold and warm and cool and every tempurature there is

    True, you've gotta play the game better than her and get her on that date, like yesterday

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    Default Re: Hot and cold and warm and cool and every tempurature there is

    No no, she sent the "so I'm boring now" text, im not fresh enough to make that beta mistake hahaha.

    I was trying to frame it that our meet up was to see who would win in a play fight, but I guess reading back I got side tracked... Any recommendations on how to continue?

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    Default Re: Hot and cold and warm and cool and every tempurature there is

    Oh I see now. Ok, my bad mayne. Well in that case Id of qualified her with something along the lines of "idk are you? I only date fun girls, are you fun and spontaneous?"
    HB: haha I think I'm fun
    "Ok ill take you out, but only if you promise not to kidnap me "
    See how that keeps her in the frame of proving herself to you AND you tell her you're gonna take her out without ever having to ask, you basically just tell her you guys are going out which doesn't give her a chance to say no. It's like telling a girl to give you her phone instead of asking if you can have her number, she can't say no


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