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    Default having some trouble with girls

    im in hs and im having some trouble with girls. one in particular, i used an awesome bad-ass opener, got her number, but i didn't really feel much attraction between us. for some reason, among most other high-school guys i see them being all friendly and sh*t for a while with girls then taking it from there and they succeed really well. i just like to flirt, get the number, go on a date or a few dates, and then either try to get her as my gf or go for a One Night Stand type thing. call me an assh*** but i honestly just want to go for the one night-stand type thing with this girl. either way i choose to go, it just seems to me that in high school using my "aggressive-type" approach just won't cut it. basically, i just like to cut to the chase without the small talk (if u guys know what i mean). also its not that I have a problem initially picking up a girl, its what comes after that that i usually have difficulty with. Any tips on "how i can "get" with this girl"? please offer any serious advice u guys might have cuz this is really starting to become an issue for me if u cant give me any tips then do u guys think i should be going about getting girls using a different technique?


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    Default Re: having some trouble with girls

    I don't think high school is the easiest place to have one night stands. You have to consider the strong and dominant variable of the parents, which always sucks in any teen's life. In addition, gossip and awkwardness can carry over into high school. Finally, is the all mighty AGE matter. If you or her are under 18, that's jail time bro.

    With all of that said, I will bestow upon you this tidbit: you're missing a part of attraction. You got the opener down, Number Close, and so on. However, you need rapport and attraction in order to really build things up to the next level.

    Make the right decisions with this knowledge. You have been warned.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: having some trouble with girls

    That's very cool that as you say you like to "cut to the chase" it's not as simple as that. Aggressive may work for you in getting numbers but if you are overly aggressive while running the game it will lead to failure. You need to calibrate how aggressive you can be. Knowing when to push and when to pull is a great skill to have.

    As Swagman has pointed out you are missing several steps that are crucial to the game. If you take the time to learn the game properly it will help you not only now but for a lifetime.

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    Default Re: having some trouble with girls

    Quote Originally Posted by Swagman View Post
    I don't think high school is the easiest place to have one night stands. You have to consider the strong and dominant variable of the parents, which always sucks in any teen's life. In addition, gossip and awkwardness can carry over into high school. Finally, is the all mighty AGE matter. If you or her are under 18, that's jail time bro.

    With all of that said, I will bestow upon you this tidbit: you're missing a part of attraction. You got the opener down, Number Close, and so on. However, you need rapport and attraction in order to really build things up to the next level.

    Make the right decisions with this knowledge. You have been warned.
    bro if she already has this huge interset in this other guy and all that kind of shit and she doesn't seem to be at all attracted to me is it still worth trying to get her as just a one time hookup? cuz thats really all i want with her. btw we're both in h.s. i just dont want to go through all the routines and sh*t and then tell her i'm interested in her but not in a relationship and if she says no (which im pretty sure most h.s. girls will say) ive just wasted all my time.

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    Default Re: having some trouble with girls

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    That's very cool that as you say you like to "cut to the chase" it's not as simple as that. Aggressive may work for you in getting numbers but if you are overly aggressive while running the game it will lead to failure. You need to calibrate how aggressive you can be. Knowing when to push and when to pull is a great skill to have.

    As Swagman has pointed out you are missing several steps that are crucial to the game. If you take the time to learn the game properly it will help you not only now but for a lifetime.
    bro if she already has this huge interset in this other guy and all that kind of shit and she doesn't seem to be at all attracted to me is it still worth trying to get her as just a one time hookup? cuz thats really all i want with her. btw we're both in h.s. i just dont want to go through all the routines and sh*t and then tell her i'm interested in her but not in a relationship and if she says no (which im pretty sure most h.s. girls will say) ive just wasted all my time.


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