This is exactly the reason I never was successful with online dating, and why I'm better in person. It actually seems you have a personality simliar to myself, and that sometimes gets perceived the wrong way by a woman when you're actually joking about something. I understand how she thought about that line, but after a month of talking, if she didn't get that you weren't talking about dirty pictures, then it's not necessarily on you. Maybe you should have quickly responded with "and no, not dirty pictures , but pics of the actual island." Still, it seems like no matter how much comfort and rapport you create with a woman, if you say something that she feels is completely out of line, even if you were kidding, then you get blocked from everywhere and never talked to again from her and whatever you two talked before is erased. Just the way it is when you first meet someone online...