do u guys think its worth going through all the shit just wanting a one-night hookup with a girl in h.s. and not actually dating her? or would this be a better strategy for college? i just dont want to go through all the routines and sh*t and then tell her i'm interested in her but not in a relationship and if she says no (which im pretty sure most h.s. girls will say) ive just wasted all my time.