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    Default Reigniting a flame

    I was hooking up with this girl last semester, we got really close and started to like each other as "serious" options, but we knew summer was coming and shed be leaving. She left we kept in contact over summer for the first half. She would tell me how much she missed me blah blah. Long story short half way through the summer with the long distance we just kind of stopped talking. Summers over and the semester just started and I'd like to try to reignite things with this girl but we haven't talked in a few months. I'm not sure exactly how to go about reigniting that spark or if I can. This girl was really into me for a while and even introduced me to her parents before summer started, but like I said distance just kind of quelled the flame. I thought shed be excited come back and would contact me but that obviously isn't the case. There seems to have just sudden been this awkward distance with us

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    Default Re: Reigniting a flame

    thats sound really in depth eithers ways..it depends

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    Default Re: Reigniting a flame

    Make contact, but be relaxed. Do not try to pick up where you left off fully. You both know what it used to be, and your job isn't to throw the whole picture at her. Slow play my man, slow play. Still escalate, and try to set up a CASUAL date, maybe drinks or lunch to catch up. From there treat it as any other pickup, and since that attraction was there, it should be easier to open again and rebuild. Don't neglect attraction and play midgame to early. Present a fresh, alpha, confident you and let her reacquire attraction, then move on to transitioning back into the more "serious side".. Best of luck brother. Cheers

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    Default Re: Reigniting a flame

    Thanks, I agree with you wholly and that's the route I was planning. I text her last night the "I just met your evil twin" text and got an immediate response but than ony got one low interest text after that, which is just weird I know she's single and her interest was so high before summer and suddenly just plummeted for no reason that I can see besides the distance, so I thought shed be excited to hear from me. So I guess my initial problem is getting her on that casual date so I can reinitiate attraction. Any texting advice to get her on that first meet? Like I said she was generally low interest in the last messages she sent. I'm thinking about next week just telling her I'm getting ice cream or lunch and she should join me, keep it simple, but idk since her interest seems to have dropped over summer


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