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    Default help rehooking girl

    Hi all,

    I'm new to all this and looking for some advice. Back story I meet Girl A about 5 weeks ago, she moves back home. I meet Girl B about 4 weeks ago everything goes well and mutually end things. I get a text from Girl A saying she is back and we go out last Thursday, things go ok but I have work the next day and end it early.

    I get a text from her at 11 on Saturday saying can you come pick me up, so obviously I do we head back to mine. We get interrupted with a call from her friend and for some reason I agree to us going to grab a drink, I live in town so it was supposed to be a couple then head back.

    We jump in to a club all good, have more than a couple of drinks. Eventually we decide to start heading back but stop off at one last place on the way back to see one of my friends. Unfortunately Girl B is there and about 20 min in Girl A sours on me, I don't know any further than that, Girl A's friend tells me to leave and I do.

    I figure it is all over but send a couple of texts the next day seeing what was up and if she is ok, never mentioning Girl B. I get no reply. She used to reply within 5 mins of any text I sent but it is Sunday morning after a big night out and she had headed home with her friend.

    Then on the Tuesday

    Me:'Girl A are you around for a chat',
    Her: 'I'm noooot, why? Did I do something wrong :-/'
    Me: 'I'm wondering the same thing, Saturday night ended weird...'
    Her: Haha let's just forget about Satuuuurday
    Me: So you free this week theres this party on Thursday at Bar A
    Her: Haha I don't like going there, but I will let you know. I'm at XXX looking after my family.
    Me: Hope everything is ok with your family let me know when your back.

    Since then it has been 4 days and a friend saw her out last night. What should I send, how long should I wait. I would be fine with this if things hadn't soured on Saturday without me knowing wtf happened, and although she isn't someone longterm she is a solid 9 who I would like to see more of

    Thanks

    Btw if anyone from Auckland is interested in meeting up I would be keen, I'm still new but have had some ok results, big swings though...

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    Default Re: help rehooking girl

    I'm having a hard time understanding the situation. What was exchanged between Girl A and Girl B exactly? Can you describe that interaction a little better? Also, who are these girls? Both in your circle of friends?

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    Default Re: help rehooking girl

    Just wait a couple of days for whatever she has going on to cool down before you talk to her again.... Like a break.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: help rehooking girl

    They were two randoms, I didn't know them at all before hand. I missed the interaction so don't have much to tell. But they had a semi mutual friends there and I saw Girl A talking to the mutual friend for 5 min. I don't even know if Girl A knows about Girl B just that she soured and instead went home with her friend

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    Default Re: help rehooking girl

    Lawdy. Yeah that's trouble. Like Marvilo said, you'll need to see what happens if you freeze. I don't know though honestly if it can be recovered because obviously some words were spoken.

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    Default Re: help rehooking girl

    Thoughts on what I should say? Was thinking either using the same line 'have you got time for a chat'

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    Default Re: help rehooking girl

    I would strongly recommend not using that line. On a weakness scale of 1-10, it's a 9. To make it a ten you just need to add the word please.
    That's why it didn't work the first time; you gave her a yes/no answer, and she answered no. Stick to statements or open-ended questions that force a response.
    After a freeze, I would open with some grade A text game. I saw the wildest thing last night...
    or
    I met the most interesting person last night...
    or
    You'll never guess what I just found out...
    You're conversation with her is weak at this point; you know you fucked up and your showing it to her. Don't be ashamed. Own it- you are a prize that many women want, that's why you also were talking to Girl B. If I was you I'd add a Girl C to the equation as soon as possible.

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    Default Re: help rehooking girl

    I know it's hard, but try act unaffected. Avoid texting her again. If she is into you, you will hear back from her sometime in the near future. If she is not into you, she will not get in touch. If you text her again you may come across as desperate.

    PS: Hey guys I've been familiar with the game for few years now and am new to AKL. Keen to meet some folks that share the same "passion" for women and enjoy a few drinks in town. PM me - I'm keen as!


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