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    Default Told the girl i liked her

    I've been talking with a 18 year old female for 2 months shes graduated. she has a boyfriend. i'm 22. i told her that i like her. she didnt say anything but rather changed the subject. should i see this as a good thing? or see it as a bad thing? how should i move forward? by the way all of our communication is via text and work. we talk nearly everyday. We flirt alot but whenever i ask to hangout she ignores the question or changes the subject thus leading me to believe i'm not friend zoned.

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    Default Re: Told the girl i liked her

    The fact that she's changing the subject every time you tried to get to the next level of your relationship indicates that she's just leading you on. She enjoys the flirting but doesn't want anything more intimate with you.

    And that's the definition of most friendzone cases.

    You said you talk almost everyday. From now on, I want you to pull back. I want you to appear more busy when she texts you. You should somehow be able to project that you have a busy life and she can't be the most important thing in it. Obtaining this attitude might scare you because there's always the risk of losing her friendship.

    But usually she'll come back. She'll wonder how your life suddenly became so busy. She'll get jealous. She'll start to seek your attention and chase you. And you'll slowly get out of the friendzone...

    Good luck.
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    Default Re: Told the girl i liked her

    I'd also like to add to Wolf's point that you should no longer verbalize your interest in her. It forces her to acknowledge that there is something between you two and no girl wants to view herself as a cheater. Things have to happen spontaneously. It has to "just happen." You do that by never talking about it while escalating physically.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Told the girl i liked her

    Yep the guys here are right.as long as you will be seeing her you should start applying Kino to interactions whilst flirting to escalating on her.

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    Default Re: Told the girl i liked her

    Well ive began pulling back. when she does text me im still flirting and talkative. but last night she called me out and said "your just not as bubbly". i basically told her that ive just been busy with life and i have. after that we had a really good texting conversation for about 2 hours. i mean ive really become exhausted through this whole thing cause i like her and i care about her. my friend asked me "Chance, is the juice worth the squeeze?" i told him "it definitely is.". Today was there 5 month anniversary and like any girl on facebook she posted a collage of some pictures of him and her and wrote "happy 5 months babe". seeing shit like that hurts. i guess the positive thing is she didnt say "i love you" in it. i'm 22 almost done with college and hes 17 and in his senior year of highschool. shes graduated. can someone please explain what the interest is here? i guess you could say move on find another girl, but it isnt that easy.

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    Default Re: Told the girl i liked her

    Never tell a girl you like her until she says it first.

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    Default Re: Told the girl i liked her

    Take what you want by communicating the right things about you.flip the dynamic so its on her.you should be having dates and going out cause well you stated you are single.being closed waiting for her wont work.Heck you could even kiss a girl with her two tables away and she won't care at least.even if she will she is also in a relation.don't waste your options.when she changed the subject she gave you IOD.

    you have nothing to loose.talk to other girls.shake it off.she is still in your life, and may probably be.then keep engaging her.if you are wanting ways to engage her then .. theres a way.


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