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    Professer.X is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default do's and don'ts of dating

    Well i understand that icking up a girl is important enough thing to be able to do but can some one tell me do's and don'ts for a longer term relationships, ideas for dates etc. those types of things or are the cliche/general idea for dates alright

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    Default Re: do's and don'ts of dating

    Basically everything from pick-up can be applied to long term relationships. Pick-up teaches you to boost attraction and keep lively conversations going. It teaches you how to build Kino. All of that transfer straight across. In fact, I would suggest that you start any long term attraction like any normal pick-up. Once the relationship starts, there are somethings you can do that you wouldn't during a normal pickup. Cliche dates (movies, dinner, ect) are no longer bad ideas. You no longer have to constantly be worried about attraction, and leading the interaction. Just hanging out becomes fun for both of you. Your end game changes to. The next interaction isn't any longer about getting closer to sex. Sex happens when you or she wants it, and there doesn't have to be large carefully constructed kino to get there. You just start in on the kino, and everything naturally will progress. Once your in a relationship, you should and can talk about feelings and things that are core to your personality. These type of topics have no place in pick-up but are essential to long term relationships. Another difference is that you don't have to be alpha all the time. Be careful though. Women are attracted to alpha men, and you should naturally be alpha most of the time. However, it is okay in relationships to let your guard down somewhat.

    That's a starter. I would say in general, pick-up is valuable all through the stages of your life and relationships, but there are somethings that change when you want to enter a long-term relationship.

  3. #3
    alvinbert Guest

    Default Re: do's and don'ts of dating

    Don't drink too much. Impaired judgement always follows.

    Do compliment the other person.

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    johnwarner Guest

    Default Re: do's and don'ts of dating

    Here some other things like,
    Don't move too quickly. It could cause a pipi le pew situation (you persue and the other runs away as fast as they can).And Do open her doors. Hold out your hand if you ahve a really big truck and she has a skirt and heels, etc. Little things go a long way.

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    Coyote Guest

    Default Re: do's and don'ts of dating

    little things that i am attentive to her. we are blokes so we are supposed to be tough. it is about them. they dream of being loved and adored (big difference between loved and adored, and obsessed over as the one). the date is about them and taking her out. we are men so we know how to look after a lady and give her a good time

    hopefully we have some ethics in how we manage the 'relationship' too and that means not lying to her or deceiving her. i will say no if i am compromising my own sense of fairness. that means i have more self discipline than many and i pick up women because I LOVE women, not because i want to punish them for being women


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