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    Default She says she's not ready.

    What up boys!

    Let's skip the intro, I've been gaming for years and I ain't new to most methods. What I'm dealing with here is a situation where I could use an opinion or two.

    Met a HB at a house party, gamed the sh1t out of her and number closed. Texted her the same night right when I took the number after she left, she was pretty responsive. Two days later I call and set up a meeting the next day, she agrees while warning me that she just came out of a three year relationship. I didn't give it much importance on the phone. Partied hard that night, the next day I overslept and kinda ended up flaking.

    I kept things cool texted her and set it up for two days later, but then here one day before the meeting she tells me, again, only this time in a text that she enjoys my company I make her laugh bla bla bla but she's not ready to date again after her last breakup a couple of months ago and said she's not the kind that will play around.

    Now I don't know how she knows that it's going to be a date, I know everything about making it seem like we're just going to hang out, no pressure. I digress.

    What I want to know is, how would you (experienced pua) deal with that kind of situation?

    Please fight the urge to tell me that it's just an excuse to blow me off politely. It's not the case, girl really just came out of a serious relationshi(t). She's always very responsive, laughing all the time among other IOIs but not ready to date in her head.

    Should I just keep gaming slowly till she snaps out of it or should I just delete that number?

    The end.

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    Default Re: She says she's not ready.

    Where are all the experts? I think I posted this in the wrong section.

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    Default Re: She says she's not ready.

    Just play it cool.... You can't always jump to the good part from the beginning( its not always like that.). Keep talking to her building comfort and sexual Tension. Plus a lot of girls say they aren't the type to fool around but once you hang out with them and flirt with them and there's some sexual escalation then it all changes.. It's probably a Test to see if you just want to use her for sex too.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: She says she's not ready.

    Yes agreed, no girl will call herself easy. Most girls will throw in as much sh1t tests as they can specially in the beginning.

    Thing is though, I'm not trying to directly jump to the good part. I try to learn and mostly develop a solid system to deal with every situation that gets thrown at me, so here I'm working on a system for girls that just got out of a long term relationship.

    In a lot of cases (similar to mine I'm assuming) their ex would've showed them such a bad time that they would want to stay away from men for a while, away from commitment. Now I definitely ain't the type that gives the "i want commitment" vibe, so I must be able to counter her negative thoughts about men...

    Thoughts?


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