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    ms83 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Opinions - Girl made me her personal driver

    I explained my situation in another topic, but long story short: I have this long time female friend who I ended up kissing some weeks ago. After that I think I messed it up, as I went to her place and tried to kiss her again and got rejected.

    Before that rejection she used to call and text me all the time, but right after that she simply stopped doing it. Also because she had some personal problems going on in her life, and wasn't really going out with anyone.

    But yesterday she texted me calling me to a party. I said yes, and that was when she told me that before the party she wanted to meet this other male friend and a group of people in a bar. I didn't like the idea, so I told her I decided not to go. But she insisted me to go with her, saying she wanted me to be there drinking with her and bla bla bla..

    So she convinced me and I ended up going. When we got there (at the bar) there were 3 dudes at the table, one wich was here "friend", but who actually I ended up reallizing it was a guy who was flirting with her, and 2 of his friends. And the bar had no other women either. So I stayed there like a chump, socializing with those 2 dudes as she flirted with her "friend".

    I felt like sh1t. It was like she made me her personal driver, so that she could go flirt with another guy in front of me.. it was one of the worst days of my life. I left there depressed, feeling like a total loser.

    I already decided to block this girl's phone number and just stop talking to her for good. But yesterday I didn't really express how angry I was, and tried to keep it cool, as if it wasn't a big deal. Today I woke up kind of regreting that... maybe I shoud have said something, or left her there alone at the bar.. I don't know.. what do you guys think?

    Sorry for the long text, I had to get it out.

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    HardRock is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Opinions - Girl made me her personal driver

    Look allow yourself to feel that emotion and don't reapt that again!Stop seeing her for a seem invested which is not bad but that may trump your overall game.resist the urge to gear towards her.

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