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    Default set up the date but now she gone quiet

    on the Thursday evening we had a quick chat and i thought id ask her if she fancied meeting up.... and this is how the converstion ended

    me: do you want to meet up soon? I think we got some judging to do right? ;-) xx (the judging bit was from an earlier conversation where she said that she wanted to me to judge her kissing and visa versa)

    her: lol we might have! when are you thinking xx

    me: im thinking maybe next w.end? whatever day your free xx

    her: yeh that would be good xx

    me: it will! lol. so you've found the courage then, i think we've got abit of chemistry xx

    her: i think so lol but still nervous. hopefully we have :-) xx

    me: got to go now ive got to be up early, don't wake up late silly!! night xx (she overslept that day)

    her: haha i will try not too! night xx


    so then i decided not to text her throughout the whole of Friday right through to Saturday night to give her space and not crowd her and this is what i sent

    me: hey there stranger! sorry ive not been in touch recently, been really busy. hope your having a good w.end and everything is ok xx

    but no response?? not sure how to approach this now, we have kind of set something up for next w.end but don't know what's wrong with her? surely it isn't cause i didn't text her for a couple of days lol

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    Default Re: set up the date but now she gone quiet

    Oh man it is getting quite easier to figure the texting game out. This is pretty easy. You have a date setup, done. No reason to worry about not getting a response back. You have the response you want, her compliance. Wait for her to respond and respond to her non-responsiveness by a good old fashioned Freeze Out (you can figure what you are doing for the date while you wait and approach other girls if need be). If you started texting her a lot 5 or so unanswered texts will kill the attraction and pretty much guarantee a flake. Just nail down what you are doing and where you are going and send her a reminder text a few days before. A call may help to in this situation. Too much contact right now will kill the interaction as she already admitted to being nervous.
    "It is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are." -Mewtwo

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    Default Re: set up the date but now she gone quiet

    You did so many mistakes:
    1) You're NOT sorry you've been busy.
    2) And seriously what's with all the Xs and Os. Leave that shit for the ladies!
    3) You set the date way too far in the future which created a lot of dead time, I would've seen her early next week.

    But anyway like MDJack said "Too much contact right now will kill the interaction as she already admitted to being nervous."
    Just send a light low energy text mid next week telling her which day and what to bring with her (make it fun).


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