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    Default Didn't get girls number, but found on facebook. What to do?

    I'm sure that I probably can't lose much by just sending a message but here's the story.

    I'm driving to work at my second job from the football game the other night when two cute girls walk across the street at the light I'm at. One of them, the blonde looks at me as I'm sitting in my truck and playing country music kind of loud gives me a thumbs up and smiles. I wave back, think nothing of it and continue to drive on. I'm at another red light down the block, and I see the blonde start yelling something in my direction. I roll down the window and ask them to repeat. Its pretty cold out. She asks if they can get a ride to the bar. I say ok, pull over and they get inside. We get to talking and things, about what they are taking in school and what I do for a living. I drop them off at the bar, and get driving to work.

    I go to the same bar later that night and run into them. They're having a good time, the blonde continues to chat with me, we're getting along fine, Kino, etc is happening often and quickly. I neg them both for stealing a sip of my beer. And continue to flirt, she's laughing, having a great time.

    By the end of the night my phone is dead and all I have is their first names, what they're taking in school and a fond memory of what the blonde looks like.

    Here is the question... do I look her up on Facebook and just randomly message her? I know I could look like a creep but do I really have anything to lose here? Any suggestions on a Facebook opener for a girl you randomly gave a ride to and then met up with at the bar?

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    Default Re: Didn't get girls number, but found on facebook. What to do?

    It's worth a shot. Maybe if you do find her, instead of a message, do the poke thing. But first try the bar again. Ask the staff if they come in, and on what nights? Try to bump into them at the bar.

    That could be an opener on FB, you can say, "Hey was at "Name of Bar", the other night, thought I might have seen you there. You owe me a shot", or something like that.

    But yeah, what do you have to lose?

    You know, even if your phone is dead you can still use a pen and napkin. JK.

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    Default Re: Didn't get girls number, but found on facebook. What to do?

    Eject. FB Game is for lucky guys only. Tried that. Met HB10 girl at Bar. Found on FB through her friend's FB. Added on Friends? Check. Sent first message? Deleted and blocked. Her friend? Blocked me as well when I sent her a message and battled everything I said online. I hate FB Game. Sure had a "moment" of clarity there where I was getting responses up the yin yang but it went downhill after that.


    At first I was confused why are all these chicks blocking me? Then it clicked. I would write something strait up PUA (without using the lingo) on a chick's FB who was getting blown up by a slew of guys who wanted them. The result? The target purposely gave he rnumber to some douchebag 20yr old guy (she was 27) simply BECAUSE I said hookups don't happen on FB. Well she said to her apparantly they do. Then I saw the HB10 Gold Digger trying to hook up with her EX on FB wall as well for him saying some nonsense about "girls being wizards" man girls are hard to game on FB is all I am saying. I don't go there anymore too frustrating. But try her wall guaranteed she will hookup with "another" lucky guy who says something stupid. I tried this. Did an experiment and said on a chick's FB wall "Girls don't give their numbers out online dude". What happened? Yep she gave her number out to the douchy dude being all AFC up in there. She did it just to spite me. Chicks are rebellious man.
    "It is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are." -Mewtwo

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    rockstar8294 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Didn't get girls number, but found on facebook. What to do?

    I forgot to mention that she said that her ex was a stage 5 clinger... I definitely made sure that after she said that that I found other friends and talked to them, danced with a couple girls, and bounced around between some groups.

    Now does looking her up on Facebook make me look clingy? Most likely IMO. Unless there is some kind of time constraint such as leaving it for a few days then messaging her. I'm thinking there might be a confident approach to the message, but one mixed in with a friendship at first kind of vibe.

    What if i say something like:

    Hey, XXXXX, Its (Me) from x bar the other night, do you remember the knight in shining armor that rescued you and your friend xxxx from a long hypothermic walk? Because of my awesomeness you two aren't two cute little ice cubes on a sidewalk somewhere, lol. I hope you had a great time Saturday! It sure looked like you did. I had a blast! It was good meeting you and having a little chat - it's always fun to make a new friend or two with goals and aspirations. So tell me a bit more about yourself if you like. If you're still interesting, maybe I'll even add you, haha.

    opinions?

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    Default Re: Didn't get girls number, but found on facebook. What to do?

    You won't get a positive response. If you even get a response, it will be friend zone all the way.

    Too long. I would try the bar again. Find out if they are in there ever, maybe she was just passing through town.

    If your gonna try the facebook approach. Wait it out a bit, not too long. Then just say hey, you look familiar, did we have a few drinks at XXX bar?

    And leave it at that. Don't friend request her. If she responds, don't reply right away.

    Then send a message saying, "Hey I'm heading to XXX bar on (night), maybe i'll see you there.

    And go to the bar, but go to have fun, not to sit and wait to see if she shows up.

    While you are there, meet new people, so that if she shows up, she sees you with a group of people, makes you look like a cool guy. But at the same time, you might get cock blocked by some other dudes.

    And get her number this time.

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    rockstar8294 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Didn't get girls number, but found on facebook. What to do?

    Well, hypothetically, I'm the one putting her in the friend zone due to my proposed message... It's not like I'm asking to marry her or have my babies. THAT would be stage 5 clinginess. lol.

    I know for a fact that she lives here for school, due to the conversation we had throughout the night.

    Remember, I Have already found her profile, and know a bit about her from the talks we had when I drove her to the bar and when I found her after returning. There is some rapport there... the only thing missing was the close.

    Yes, I Get that maybe there was someone there with a pen to get her number but there's not much chance to randomly find a pen at the end of the night unless it was the bar's manager or something.

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    Default Re: Didn't get girls number, but found on facebook. What to do?

    Theres a high chance if she likes you she may go to that bar.the online approach may kill attraction in this dynamic. go back there an hour earlier to the time you were there with them.have fun socialize talk to as much people as you can Number Close them.probably they might show up.if they do engage them.if not why not frequent the bar twice at least.if it doesn't pan out move on.


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