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Thread: Girl giving me her number in stages

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    Default Girl giving me her number in stages

    Her, Iíve been talking to this girl online for a wee while now. The background is that sheís new on the site and in the past has called me out on my negs/Push-Pull, so Iíve had to dial it back a bit.

    But Iíve still been getting some things in, calling her a b+, semi-awesome etc.

    So over the last while she has been giving me her number in stages and we are down to the last digit, and she has said itís going to be the most difficult and I have to impress her.

    Weíve been talking about what weíd like to do on a date but no firm commitment of actually going on one.

    So Iím wondering how to best approach getting the last digit and so Iíve thought of the following:

    • Just carry on as is and let her cough it up eventually
    • Tell her that if I donít have her number then we canít go on our date on Saturday even though we havenít arranged anything (but Iím thinking this leaves me open to ďwell Iím busy Saturday couldnít do it anywayĒ and no sign of the last digit)
    • I can make like ten phonecalls lol

    Any thoughts would be great?

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    Default Re: Girl giving me her number in stages

    You seem to be tempted to dial 1 through 9.but i'll move on in this case.you are supposed to be closing more than one girl man...not exclusive yet.u may not give her that.even then don't allow such treatment.see it as a shit test.

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    Default Re: Girl giving me her number in stages

    sounds like she is playing you lol

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    Default Re: Girl giving me her number in stages

    I don't like this, at all. She's completely in control & you're playing her game like a puppy because you want her number so badly. My advice to you is to take control of the frame, if you still can.
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    Default Re: Girl giving me her number in stages

    Yeah, at this point, you are so in her frame, you are basically at her mercy. Terrible way to set things up. The second a girl suggested a game where I get her number little by little, I would respond with "lolol" or laugh out loud if it were in person. Sooo ridiculous. There is no good action to take except choose a new girl and not do that again.
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    Default Re: Girl giving me her number in stages

    How does one get out of this frame? I am pretty sure she has some interest since she actually bothered to search for my facebook profile herself and make a comment on one of my photos, and she added me after I told her to stop being a stalker and do so. But since her son is very sick at the moment and we can't set up a date we were only texting and sort of ventured into a battle over frame control.

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    Default Re: Girl giving me her number in stages

    Quote Originally Posted by purshort View Post
    How does one get out of this frame? I am pretty sure she has some interest since she actually bothered to search for my facebook profile herself and make a comment on one of my photos, and she added me after I told her to stop being a stalker and do so. But since her son is very sick at the moment and we can't set up a date we were only texting and sort of ventured into a battle over frame control.
    You've got to get her in your frame... In this scenario I would have said...

    You: "Before I enter your last digit into my phone, I need you to do something for me first..."

    Her: "What's that?"


    Voila! She's in your frame.


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