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    Exclamation How'd I do? Where can i go from here!?

    Here are 2 of my convos with 2 girls, one i met out at a party that i was dancing with and number closed (girl A).

    The other one i kind of knew from mutual friends but we never really talked, i got her number when we were out at a party (girl B).


    Girl A.

    Me: Hey dork, i need your help with something
    HB: haha whats up
    Me: what did you eat for breakfast and lunch, im writing a paper for business.
    HB: hmmmm, i ate a banana for breakfast and for lunch i ate a light egg sandwitch! haha why did you need to know that?
    Me: just a banana? you know breakfast is the most important meal of the day
    HB: haha i was too hung over
    Me: oh i bet you are that typical (insert name of school here) part girl
    HB: haha omg no wayyyy
    Me: u know they type, u get into parties just because you are a girl then you bat your eyes at some poor guy so hell give you a drink
    HB: hahah no way not meeee
    Me: just keep telling yourself that :P but i gotta finish this essay so text me later

    no reply after that... howd i do? where can i pick up from here? do i ask her to go eat somewhere?


    Girl B.

    Me: hey dork, i need your help with something
    HB: hey sorry, whos this? my phone is all f*cked up
    Me: hey, im asking the questions here buddy...its (my name) by the way
    HB: ohhh hahah whats up
    Me: what did you eat for breakfast and lunch, im writing a paper for business
    HB:lol
    i ate an omlette with cheddar cheese, tomato and onion and toast
    Me: that actually sounds good for our schools food
    HB: for lunch i had a salad and cheese bosco
    whats ur paper on anyway
    sticks (the name of a dining center on campus)
    haha it was
    its all about what you choose although its hard being a vegetarian here
    Me: yeah i can tell your phone is messed up, i just got 5 different texts
    HB: lol that was actually me not my phone hahahahaha
    Me: well you need some texting lessons then, come by my office hours at around 6:00 (professors always say that to their students)
    HB: shut it, ahahha im a fantastic texter im just busy sometimes lol
    Me: i never knew you were a vegetarian, thats pretty cool
    HB: thanks
    usually people bash it so i appreciate that
    Me: tree hugger... *cough cough*
    HB: haha Nothing wrong with that
    Me: i never said there was! i gotta finish this paper so you just keep working on your texting and text me later
    HB: yeah yeah

    again howd i do? did that end badly? and where can i pick up with her?


    And FYI...The funny thing is I actually needed to ask this question because i really had to write that paper for business.

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    Default Re: How'd I do? Where can i go from here!?

    Don't tell a girl to text you back, have a good reason to go off, it sounded like you chose the paper instead of her which is obviously not bad but you kind of were playing it safe and ejected too early.

    it was almost like she might be boring so..she was giving IOIs here you know you could have gone for the meetup.

    you may also have been a bit too hard on girl 1.here you could imply it was an inside joke or another thing..overall not bad at all apart from the other.

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    Default Re: How'd I do? Where can i go from here!?

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    Don't tell a girl to text you back, have a good reason to go off, it sounded like you chose the paper instead of her which is obviously not bad but you kind of were playing it safe and ejected too early.

    it was almost like she might be boring so..she was giving IOIs here you know you could have gone for the meetup.

    you may also have been a bit too hard on girl 1.here you could imply it was an inside joke or another thing..overall not bad at all apart from the other.
    thanks for the reply hardrock, just a few questions...

    1. why never tell a girl to text you back?
    2. what kind of ioi's were they giving? which girl?
    3. haha how was i too hard on her?

    thanks.

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    Default Re: How'd I do? Where can i go from here!?

    Its puts all the focus on her and you are supposed to LEAD always.
    All of them.signs they were attracted.one even qualified herself
    "HB: haha i was too hung over "

    3. haha how was i too hard on her?
    "Me: u know they type, u get into parties just because you are a girl then you bat your eyes at some poor guy so hell give you a drink
    HB: hahah no way not meeee
    Me: just keep telling yourself that :P but i gotta finish this essay so text me later" <-- You reenforced the negative opinion and posed it on her.that why she probably didn't reply."

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    Default Re: How'd I do? Where can i go from here!?

    damn, i see what i did now...

    well now i know for the future! thanks hardrock.

    but i dont get how her saying she was hungover is an ioi?

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    Default Re: How'd I do? Where can i go from here!?

    She was qualifying her self to you

    Me: just a banana? you know breakfast is the most important meal of the day
    HB: haha i was too hung over


    she bought into your frame of no bananas only for breakfast.she could have just stated something else even the emoticon reflects whats pertinent.


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