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Thread: If she says "You're too sweet:)"

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    Default If she says "You're too sweet:)"

    So I'm testing out a little Direct Game...

    Have been texting this HB8 for 2 weeks now.

    I texted her what I was doing tonight and the rest goes like this..
    Her: "Well that sounds like so much fun! haha we're having great Friday nights!" (she is actually with her mom and I'm at my place sending out emails to potential employers, to give you more context)
    Me: "You know what could make it better..."
    Her: "Whats that?"
    Me: " If you were here with me"
    Her: "Awww your're too sweet"

    My question is, was I being too direct and come off as an AFC?
    How would you all recommend answering back, or just not text her back after the last one?

    I know I put too much thought into texting game...

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    Default Re: If she says "You're too sweet:)"

    not too bad, but by telling her if she was there with you that you would have a better time implies that she has high worth to you. Which is cool and everything but you gotta ask yourself...would I still have a good time if she wasn't here? The answer is yes.

    If it were me in your situation I wouldnt reply, because what else is there to say? You told her it'd be fun if she was with you, she got the memo and replied.
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    Default Re: If she says "You're too sweet:)"

    Great point!

    I would have usually replied to her "what's that?" with something not implying to her of course.

    but like I said, just testing out the Direct Game approach. I used to do this approach a lot but I feel like it comes off as being needy or something.

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    Default Re: If she says "You're too sweet:)"

    Yea if you have to really invest time into thinking about how to respond then you're prob better off saving your time and not responding.

    I remember when I made a revelation, so to speak, about getting the best response from a woman and also avoid the 'no response'. What I had come to realize was that if I got worried about her not responding then wouldn't she get worried if I didn't respond? Obviously your main goal isn't to get her to worry, just being aware of the fact takes your game into another dimension.
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    Default Re: If she says "You're too sweet:)"

    My question is, was I being too direct and come off as an AFC
    no that's perfect if you're running Direct Game, but since your asking us about it it means you're insecure about it and you're afraid of making mistakes. that means that you already care too much about the givin outcome.

    there's nothing wrong with being sweet every now and then as long as you are genuine and not just kissing a$$ so you can get some (and believe me she will be able to tell the difference) if you want her for an LTR, this kind of talk is just fine.

    I want to add that there is no right or wrong way to talk to girls. all to often guys overthink this like its some kind of mechanical process, but its not. pua is more of an art form.


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