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    Question Intriguing much younger girl

    Some time ago, my corporation has admitted the sexiest co-worker there and we had lots of Tension in the beginning to the point that we were too rude with each other and only talked about strict working matters (no one else noticed our particular relationship there). I used to ignore her and act like a natural around her (being lots of cordial with other people, showing my best at working, being lots of funny and showing her that everybody liked and respected me, looking in her eyes whenever I had to talk to her and leaving immediately when conversation finished, etc).


    The next step is that we started respecting each other even if only at a formal level and then very friendly but with a little distance. Recently, she touched me for the first time (offering to help me doing some pasting first and touching my elbow when asking a question later - I didn't show any surprise to her) In the beginning she stepped way from me (but I never let her know that I noticed that). It's very easy for there to know each other ages discretly (to the point that no one knows if we ever checked it). I'm 43 and she's 27.

    However...

    Some time ago, she asked me to treat a personal paper of her (she could have asked another fellow of mine) where appeared her birthday, but she couldn't say if I had paid attention to the detail. So, one week later she commented that a customer which age I had just referred was one year older than her. Seems she really wanted to make sure that I know her age, but why?


    She's one of the youngest co-workers and the only one who may challenge her is 34 (she's very jealous of this one - something no one notices, except me).


    My question is this:

    I'm very intrigued why she's so obsessed that I know her age, especially given that she's some 15-years-old younger... (Any one could guess her age is between 26 and 30, much younger than me of course).

    I doubt that many people may answer me, but would like to start an assay to reach an answer. I think that this has a lot to do with female psychology and must be very interesting.

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    Default Re: Intriguing much younger girl

    It's not entirely clear that she's obsessed with you or you knowing her age (at least not to me, at least not from this angle). As to attraction and age difference, sometimes you just cannot help these things. I am in a situation right now where I am the younger girl into an older guy, and I get the feeling he's wondering why I am into him (see my post titled: Dating an older guy).

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    Default Re: Intriguing much younger girl

    First, you'd probably have to ask yourself why it is important? Do you want to ask this girl out? Do want nothing to do with her? Do you not like her? There's obviously something deeper that bugs you. Otherwise, who cares? Acknowledge her age. She's 27, your 43, whoopde do.

    What it sounds like to me, she's interested in you. She's younger, she knows that. She is mostly likely hoping that you don't thing she is too young. As toughgirlcookie would tell ya, it can be tough being the younger girl dating an older man. There's some difficulty on her front too.

    It seems like so far you've held a strong frame. You didn't back out when she touched you, and you haven't cared what she thought of you. These are alpha traits. Your assertive and confident. Girls, even guys for that matter, appreciate those in people. Simply sounds like she's into you bro

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    Default Re: Intriguing much younger girl

    She may or may not be into you. I don't think the age thing is enough to gauge at this point.

    Like Bballking said though. it something you want? You don't seem that interested. Also, an office relationship = disaster every time. A large age difference seems great at first, but less so later on when you realize you don't have much to talk about.

    Just continue flirting and have fun.

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    Default Re: Intriguing much younger girl

    Bballking, the girl is sexy and I'm curious, that's it. It's challenging, but I fully agree to Essential17 when it comes to co-workers and age differences.

    I couldn't imagine the point of view of Toughcookiegirl. I've ever though that a younger girl would think that an older guy feels she's a prize, but maybe they can feel insecure about the situation, too. I'm analysing your recommended post and will reply to it.

    Perhaps she wanted me to make some comment and let her know if I think she's too young. Maybe she wanted to know if I paid attention to her birthdate in her papers a week before. This might be a cue for her.

    I'm still curious and searching for an answer. I'm glad for your helpful replies.

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    Default Re: Intriguing much younger girl

    I think u should ask her if she thinks that you think she is too young. If she tpuches you again, then you should touch her back, and see what she does. I guess if she is not interested she will get away or move ur hand. This is a hard situation..ha! And i thought mines was complicated lol. If u can check out my thread "does my customer likes me" i would really appreciate it. Im new here, so im just looking around.. ok ty.
    HaPpYGo5

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    Default Re: Intriguing much younger girl

    THX happyg05, I'll have a look at your thread.

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    Default Re: Intriguing much younger girl

    I've just have a look on "The Tao Of Badass" by Joshua Pellicer and he may have some answers about this querry.

    He tells about the qualifier, something a girls says non sequitur to make sure she's attractive to the guy. He even says a girl may not qualify herself if she thinks the guy wouldn't accept her if she does, a risk she doesn't want to run. In fact, I doubt she would want me to know something she might feel as negative, however concerned she might be about it.

    Letting me know her age may be a qualifier according to Joshua.

    By the way, unfortunately, Joshua is very synthetic in writing and many things remain unknown abou this type of interaction. He even tells a way if the girl doesn't qualify herself (the question qualifier). He says this is the first technique, but doesn't mention any second technique...


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