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    Default Stuck on how to answer this text

    I've been texting with this HB and we're hitting it off pretty well. We're flirting a lot, Kino is there when in person. Only obstacle is that she has a bf. (He looks like a chump but I need to do a little bit more digging...)

    So the texts go on like this and I'm stuck on how to proceed:

    (some unrelated story)...
    HB: No worries.
    Me: That's my girl.
    HB: Not your girl but I am that girl. (referring to the story that she's a go-getter.)
    Me: Oh I'm not worrying about that. (referring to the "not your girl" part, meaning that she'll be mine eventually)
    HB: About what?

    I'm stuck here. I only see 2 options. First one is to go with what I meant and playfully say that she'll be mine. Second option is saying that she's indeed the go-getter.

    Although second option looks safer, it still conveys interest and I don't want to show my interest just yet, because it's still early stages of interaction.

    Is there any other way around this? Opinions appreciated...
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    Default Re: Stuck on how to answer this text

    Better option IMO is to brush it off and change the direction of the conversation. You could try something along the lines of:

    "You know what I mean...[insert something playful]"

    I don't know how the rest of the conversation was going, so it's difficult to take it anywhere. But you see my point. Deflect the conversation in a different direction.

    Honestly, for future reference, this seems like it was a bit too direct, but I liked where you were trying to take it. If you want you can just own what you were trying to say and see where it takes you. That's the option I would take because I'd be curious where it would take the interaction. That being said, I'm not as results driven as some, and I'm more interested in the experience than the final result a lot of the time.
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    Default Re: Stuck on how to answer this text

    Thanks for this.

    The thing is, I have to see this girl 5 days each week and we're partners in several projects (College). And I don't want to risk it too much so there would be awkwardness every time we see each other.

    I think I'll go safe this time until I find out how serious she is with her bf.
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