So for whatever reason she lost interest (too long before i showed interest back 3 months, met other guys, some AFC thing i did) and now im the one doing all the chasing, when she used to be the one who did it all. And pretty sure she currently has no male dating options, shes shy so she doesnt get as many as most girls. I also had stupidly told her I wanted to be with her(very afc move) and thats when she really started locking down, hit me with friends for now and I usually have to initiate everything now. She still is eager to hang with me though and Monday when i went out with her i had her laughing and having fun during dinner. Then at the movies she was petting my hand and arm that i had holding the inner part of her thighh. She also kept resting her head on my shoulder. At the end of the night she hugged me, kissed my cheek and i tried to get a real kiss from her and got the cheek as usual.
Now i understand its easier to just give up and go after other chicks which i have no problem doing. But i also love a challenge and still feel i can flip this one. Idk if it helps that she has a rather low self esteem. Anyways, any tips or methods to flip her so she will start chasing me? Im already planting the seed that when shes out with or talking to me that shes going to have a good time. Now I just need to get her to realize that to keep having these feelings she is going to need to be around me and chase me.
Thanks for the help guys