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    havok77 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to get a girl to start chasing you again

    So for whatever reason she lost interest (too long before i showed interest back 3 months, met other guys, some AFC thing i did) and now im the one doing all the chasing, when she used to be the one who did it all. And pretty sure she currently has no male dating options, shes shy so she doesnt get as many as most girls. I also had stupidly told her I wanted to be with her(very afc move) and thats when she really started locking down, hit me with friends for now and I usually have to initiate everything now. She still is eager to hang with me though and Monday when i went out with her i had her laughing and having fun during dinner. Then at the movies she was petting my hand and arm that i had holding the inner part of her thighh. She also kept resting her head on my shoulder. At the end of the night she hugged me, kissed my cheek and i tried to get a real kiss from her and got the cheek as usual.

    Now i understand its easier to just give up and go after other chicks which i have no problem doing. But i also love a challenge and still feel i can flip this one. Idk if it helps that she has a rather low self esteem. Anyways, any tips or methods to flip her so she will start chasing me? Im already planting the seed that when shes out with or talking to me that shes going to have a good time. Now I just need to get her to realize that to keep having these feelings she is going to need to be around me and chase me.

    Thanks for the help guys

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    Default Re: How to get a girl to start chasing you again

    She gave you a huge ioi sort of at the movies.next time you may follow through.

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    Default Re: How to get a girl to start chasing you again

    What is her behavior now; Do you guys hang out as friends, is she inviting you out to do things?

    If she's actively showing friendship interest then it's easy, and you just need to continue touching her like she's your girlfriend, just don't put any emotional pressure on her. Yes, that was a mistake to say you wanted to be with her.

    I'd just text her once in a while and see if she wants to do things. Be patient and keep her on the back burner for a bit while you see a few other girls. There's no time duration on these things.

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    Default Re: How to get a girl to start chasing you again

    Absolutely ignore her including all her reactions. Pass after her looking away from her in the horizontal plane (not looking to the floor or to the watch!). Don't even say hello to her even if she says hello to you. Have positive body language (seat straight with legs apart, walk straight and so on) and be positive.

    Next week tell me about her. I'll tell you more.


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