Re: How to catch a woman attention online?
Yea I have to agree with HardRock, photos should not be cliche' and the messages should not be to vague, you have to remember several other cats message these women ALL day, the goal is to stick out.
Currently I'm out of town for work and decided to pre-game a few locals in the town Im in before my arrival on both POF and OKC, of course I went with the safe, "Hey, Im interested in getting to know you" but this got me nowhere. I decided to become bold because like you I got viewed allot, but no one responded, so the first victim got a decent sized mysterious yet effective message from me to which she quickly responded, it was simple, but at the same time I made it seem as if it was no big deal if she responded or not. I chat her up a couple days while in transit and always made it seem as if my interest was just chatting. The day after I arrived in town I let her know that my access to the site was limited so we may not be chatting much anymore, she quickly let me know work would keep her her from chatting as well so her fix was to shoot me her number. we got together a few times but not much developed, but its still in progress.
Second HB I on POF took some very simple bait pertaining to the weather and her clothing on her profile pic, a few messages later I let her know I was coming in town for business and needed a tour guide. I made sure to let her know this was strictly business and I had very little interest in 'hooking up', needless to say soon as she found out I arrived she met me at my telly we went out for drinks and its history from there.
One thing I will emphasize is the need to send a message that not only intrigues them, but also makes them feel like they have to respond, you could try something along the lines of "hey why is your profile pic upside down?" or "grammar is not one of your strong points huh, the errors in your description gave me a headache" and for the ones that did view my page without saying anything I'd say something along the lines of "I didn't see anything about stalking in your description, someone needs to update their profile." One message that seems to really get a response, in the field as well as online is asking them what they would say to you if they were the guy, I'm telling you, this one is golden, I've n-closed twice online with this one, spice it up to your particular game.
I kinda went on a rant, but as of now I still have a good response rate and Im having fun practicing until the weekend, I have 3 weeks left here, I foresee many field reports coming while I'm here, hope this helps.
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