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    Columbus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Mixed messages while texting? Need advice on the next step.

    Hey. Here's a little breakdown of the situation.

    I was at a wedding reception last night. Shortly after the dance floor starting kicking off, I approached a 2 set and started dancing it up with my target. After an hour or so, I told her I needed to cool down and I was going outside. I grabbed her close and pulled her into me and told her to save me a dance later. (First mistake?) I was trying to display lack of neediness and generate a little sexual push pull since Kino levels were off the chart.

    I came back to the reception shortly after and purposely danced with other girls and my friends in close proximity to her without really paying too much attention to her. I could tell she was checking me out.

    Here's where things take a turn.

    I'm not great friends with the wedding party by any means, but I do see them frequently. That being said, my target started to approach me and a few feet away from getting to me, the brides brother asks her to dance, and for the rest of the reception, they danced together. I saw her take his number at the end of the night.

    Here's another twist. After the lights came on, and everything was winding down, One of the girls in her group, a 34 year old HB7, approached me. She was hitting on me hard trying to say we hooked up 13 years ago and blah blah blah. I showed her a little attention, but I do t sleep with married woman, so I was just having fun. (I can go into detail if anyone want to hear the game that would have landed her in bed).

    So we all end up on the same shuttle going back to the hilton. I sit next to my target but she's showing me no attention, so I move two rows up and sit next to her married friend and we continue the kino and flirting. Then out of nowhere, my target comes over and sits in my lap.

    I literally have my hand on the married hb7's thigh and my other hand on my target, who's laying back on me and still on my lap. We share some small talk and flirt more (again if you want the exact dialogue, I'll add it later) kino at this point, between the dancing and the shuttle ride is well exceeding sexual levels.

    So while we enter the hotel, she gives me her number and I tell her to hit me up after her and her friends get comfy so we can continue the party In our suite. She never hits me back.

    Tonight I hit her back with this text:

    Me: Hey dancing queen.. Last night was a blast! Hope you and your girlfriends made it home safely this morning. P.S. You still owe me a dance

    Her: (about 2 mins after I sent mine) We did thanks! Really hungover today but we're all ok. I promise you we can dance together again. And I'm sure I'll see you around (town name). Either at the golf course or at (company I work for). Maybe we can grab a drink with (mutual friend) sometime!


    So I'm not really sure where to go next. She's obviously into me a little. We did have a connection. But the whole 'mutual friend' thing and the 'see you around town' thing really threw me off my game.

    Sorry for the long story, but honestly she might just be a tease, jealous that I was giving attention to her older married friend.. Any suggestions would be much appreciated. Thanks in advance.

    *side note.. I date around a lot and never fall hard immediately. But this girls attitude and the whole vibe of last night was pretty magical. I really want this one.

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    stugots32 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Mixed messages while texting? Need advice on the next step.

    I would just ask her out, and quit being a pussy. She responded timely, so that is a positive. Your move is go for it, or sit back an do nothing and hope you run into her.

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    Columbus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Mixed messages while texting? Need advice on the next step.

    lol, its not a mater of being a pussy.. I'm going to ask her out regardless. that wasn't my concern. The first text was implying that she still owed me a date with dancing. I guess I was just looking for some opinions and what other would actually say and do in response to her text.. It was just a strange situation with lots of variables. Thanks for your 2 cents though.

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    Default Re: Mixed messages while texting? Need advice on the next step.

    Don't respond to her text. You got on her radar and now she's thinking about you waiting to hit her up. Wait a couple days then hit her up with a new text not relating to the first text convo. It was good that you hit her up the next day, had a solid first text to get her to think about you and you had a positive reply. In a few days id send a message relating to something you guys talked about before, after a couple messages back and fourth invite her for a drink. Id do Sunday or monday

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    Default Re: Mixed messages while texting? Need advice on the next step.

    It seems like she's is playing hard to get... She's using the normal girl move ( talk to you when you pay her no mind then back off when you start to respond.) A case of women chasing what they can't have.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!


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