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    Default A unique case of the cold shoulder

    Just to provide a little backstory, I was seeing this girl back in the summer, she broke it off until after the summer was over and we've been seeing each other since then. All that info can be found in http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...ad-timing.html if you care to know.

    I've been getting the cold shoulder the last week and a half or so since the last time we went out (which we both had fun during). I actually ran into her late last week at a bar where she and I were both with our respective groups of friends. She was very standoffish and aloof during what little conversation we had, but I was on my way out of there to go somewhere else anyway so we weren't together long. I texted her a day or two later saying we should get together this week and no response. That was a few days back.

    Now the problem - she's not a conversational texter. What I mean by that is that she doesn't spend all day texting people, rarely checks her phone and doesn't respond to most texts she gets. I know for fact that's the case, it's not just me. So our texts were usually limited to setting up our next date or if one of us had something legitimate to say or ask...not in the "hey how was your day?" sense. Our conversations were done in person, not through the phone, which both of us prefer.

    So normally when a girl gives me the cold shoulder like that and blows me off, I just break contact and see what happens. Sometimes I hear from them again, sometimes I don't, you guys know how that goes. This one's different though since she doesn't text like that. It wasn't uncommon for her to take a day or two to get back to me, and it wasn't like it was only me, her girlfriends always give her sh1t for doing the same thing to them.

    Is there any way around this one? The normal contact break doesn't seem like it would do much good in this situation. Seems like you can usually stir up some interest by doing that, however temporary it may be, it at least gives you a window to work with. I've got another girl on the hook, so it's not the end of the world if it doesn't work out. But I'm pretty into this girl and I'd like to see what can happen.

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    Default Re: A unique case of the cold shoulder

    This one sounds like shes got options and is in touch with them.

    "hey met a woman today, same smile even mannerisms"

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    Default Re: A unique case of the cold shoulder

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    This one sounds like shes got options and is in touch with them.

    "hey met a woman today, same smile even mannerisms"
    Definitely a possibility. I don't doubt for a second that she's got plenty of options, she's a solid 8 with a great personality...it's no coincidence that I'm into her. I'm just wondering if there's any other way to pique a girls interest again other than breaking contact, cause like I said, I don't think that's gonna work in this situation.

    Not sure what you mean by the second part of your reply though.

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    Default Re: A unique case of the cold shoulder

    you may use it as a reengage opener then proceed from there.

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    Default Re: A unique case of the cold shoulder

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    you may use it as a reengage opener then proceed from there.
    Could you elaborate on that for me? Keep in mind that I'm no PUA master by any means.

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    Default Re: A unique case of the cold shoulder

    I believe he means sending this line to reengage her:

    "hey met a woman today, same smile even mannerisms"

    To get her to respond to you, then you can take it over from there.

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    Default Re: A unique case of the cold shoulder

    Ahh ok...not sure about that since like I said, she's not a texter. I can almost guarantee that wouldn't get a response.

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    Default Re: A unique case of the cold shoulder

    Ahh ok...not sure about that since like I said, she's not a texter. I can almost guarantee that wouldn't get a response.
    It works most times.you know what..may call her and use that line and go from there. Calibrate

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    Default Re: A unique case of the cold shoulder

    Lol... well hey if she is not a texter, then leave her a voicemal..lol
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