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    Default Re: Dating an older man - advice needed

    Women are not aggressors in the dating industry.
    almost all women want to be sure before they delve in and its not bad at all

    even though what outline pertains you could stick on him

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    Default Re: Dating an older man - advice needed

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    "But, A "typical girl" IS a weirdo who over-thinks things!"

    Woah man theres nothing like a typical girl here.never give women such random nicknames.that will not be tolerated.That goes for the other too.everyone has their coping strategy.av seen this dyn before its not typical.its been smart and treading cautiously.playing a role...

    Being a "typical" girl is better than a weirdo who over thinks stuff.
    Bet you may not have liked the comment.am sure he mean't well.from a guy who learned to not give references like "ohh you are just like other girls they all do that.."(complaining girl)

    and got a reply of "so am i not special huh" at that time i did mean well but was just trying to sort out something.

    However am not speaking for him am just saying he might have been implying actually help which is not bad but i believe even if theres attraction towards you.there are other ways.

    Being analytical is not a bad thing..wnt take that..


    In a nutshell you handling this perfectly and you don't need to be an aggressor.the other party desires you. u might have a few options but your just screening..either ways may go on with him

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    Default Re: Dating an older man - advice needed

    So what happened in the end?

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    Default Re: Dating an older man - advice needed

    Nothing. I thought he wasn't interested after our date, but he texted me yesterday. I am not overthinking it. He may just want to be friends and that's fine too.

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    Default Re: Dating an older man - advice needed

    Jesus girl, I'm turned off just by seeing how much time this is taking.
    But what do I know, they say good things happen to those who wait! They might be right.

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    Default Re: Dating an older man - advice needed

    Quote Originally Posted by toughcookiegirl View Post
    Nothing. I thought he wasn't interested after our date, but he texted me yesterday. I am not overthinking it. He may just want to be friends and that's fine too.
    The guy you've mentioned sounds a lot like me. I often will not make a move on the first date (funnily enough, the more I like her the longer it takes me). The best approach any girl has had to get through that wall of unknown that I have is to treat me simply as a close friend and invite me out to do things each week, but without any pressure or expectation of it, just like a friend would do.

    BUT, when they do hang out with me, they make a lot of physical contact, which certainly works. It doesn't have to be anything overly sexual, just adjusting a guy's tie, pulling imaginary lint from his hair, touching his arm, etc. all work incredibly well at escalating a guy's attention. Eventually I come around, and I think this guy would too And if he says something about not liking the attention, you were just being friendly and he has nothing to worry about.

    Otherwise, just be an overly cool, confident, independent girl, with her own life, but showing him an appropriate level of attention.

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    Default Re: Dating an older man - advice needed

    Update: We had gone out on one more date and neither of us were feeling it too much so we agreed to be just friends. He also indicated that our personalities were quite different (which I'd agree, but I feel like I don't really know him well enough). Generally, to me, when I tell someone we should be just friends, I don't plan to see them again. But, sometime around the holidays he texted me and we texted back and forth. And then I texted him, and he asked if I wanted to get dinner next week. I wasn't expecting that, but I said "sure" figuring we'd be just friends. But, then I canceled dinner saying it was bad weather and he asked to reschedule to the following week. So this week, we finally had dinner. He offered to pay, but I insisted on splitting (since we were just friends). We talked well past dinner was over. He didn't try anything physical (he never has). Thing is that I am somewhat attracted to him (and that's more than what I can say for most of my recent dates - ugh), or at least enjoy his company (and I think he does too or he won't have asked me to have dinner, especially after I tried to cancel). Anyway, I know it's unlikely, but any chance it could still go somewhere?

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    Default Re: Dating an older man - advice needed

    Asked you out.u flaked and he rescheduled.sometime s when things go round like that one may become comfortable and relaxed even thinking they have the other already.even though what outlined pertains may stick to him.

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    Default Re: Dating an older man - advice needed

    Hard rock, can you elaborate? Not sure i fully understand.

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    Default Re: Dating an older man - advice needed

    <b>Hard rock, can you elaborate? Not sure i fully understand.</b>
    refers to the other..


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